OK, I am not a football fan. In fact I seem to have something missing in my genetics (dad is the same) where I just can't get excited about any form of sport at all, watching or participating..
That aside, while football culture in this country is definitely not ideal, I don't think there's anything wrong with it in general. To say the "upper classes" don't play or watch football is nonsense, although to say that there are many many more who would be considered working class in this country is not nonsense...
It's probably also worth looking outside of the nation, given it's one of the worlds truly global sports, other countries have exactly the same sort of followings as this one. Albeit we do seem to like a fight more in this country than in some others (though that's not just football)
This is probably the most sensible post of a non-football supporting person here. Given the sweeping generalisations I actually though the OP was trying to wind everyone up!?
To say that there is a "faux community" in football, or that most football fans have little or no other interests is completely ridiulous and totally laughable. It's far too easy to make uneducated and misgiuded judgments on any social scene or community if:
a) you're not part of it
b) you've never experienced it
c) you have no interest in it
The football team I follow has no money-grabbing players (the gap between the average earning player at the club and the average earning fan is very narrow), it relies solely on the community of the fans and has been awarded community club of the year three or four times in the last five years. It's common to see the players having a drink with the fans after the match and they play a huge role in the local community (charities, schools, etc.).
I follow the team avidly because I believe it's overwhelmingly important to show passion, dedication and loyalty for something - the same for most football fans. It's generally an unquestionable relationship between fan and club. I work in quite an alpha male environment where 90% of the workforce are football fans. Regardless of which team we support, there's never any rivalry, there's no aggression, there's obviously a bit of mickey-taking but it's all in good fun. All of these people have diverse interests, we just happen to have football in common.
Also, in the almost twenty years I've been going I've seen so little violence. Never seen a fan strike an opposing fan. There are a few kids/louts that like to think that the UK still has the football violence of the Seventies, but in general it's a complete myth. These louts are generally shunned by the rest of the fans, and I personally would much rather have a conversation about football with my non-supporting flatmate than with a loyal lout.