Im fed of texting as well, its madness, it getting to the point where i really dont want to discuss anything meaningful with girls over them because they can be read tottaly different to what you mean, but i said pretty much that to a girl the other day when she said she wanted to ask me some stuff and i recon she thought i was been funny.
Getting Into A Relashionship?!
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I went out with a girl that used to txt me 30+ times a day used to drive me mental was like the Spanish inquisition! Suffice to say that relationship didn't last all to long..
I often think the biggest mistake people make in relationships is becoming to reliant on the other person, you need to keep having your own interests and hobbies do things with your mates etc...
I often think the biggest mistake people make in relationships is becoming to reliant on the other person, you need to keep having your own interests and hobbies do things with your mates etc...
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Bloody females!! Sooo confusing! Just about to ring her earlier and she txts me back... after 24 hours exactally :/ Asked yesterday if she wanted to come round in the week for a take away and a film even though i know she would say no as her cars buggered and she has prep to do after work each day for a week for a hair show! She's gonna come round next week though and i really dont wanna do it, but im gonna have to bring it up and ask her if she wants to full on start "seeing" each other. She's really timid(sp) so i know she is gonna squirm when i bring it up, but i think i gotta do it?!
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You have to ask a girl to enter a relationship? I thought it just "happened"You've only gone out a couple of times, don't scare her off.
Hmmm... i realised that just as i wrote my reply! That settles that issue then lol.
Bloody females!! Sooo confusing! Just about to ring her earlier and she txts me back... after 24 hours exactally :/ Asked yesterday if she wanted to come round in the week for a take away and a film even though i know she would say no as her cars buggered and she has prep to do after work each day for a week for a hair show! She's gonna come round next week though and i really dont wanna do it, but im gonna have to bring it up and ask her if she wants to full on start "seeing" each other. She's really timid(sp) so i know she is gonna squirm when i bring it up, but i think i gotta do it?!
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i dont get this bit?
why do you have to bring it up? she already knows your interested in her. maybe she just wants to keep her options open. lots of blokes do it that way and i know a lot of girls do it that way too. hell my girl did that too me for 2 months when we first started 'dating'. been together for 2 years now tho so it must be ok.
i was very like you in that i was doing the whole texting thing. one thing i learnt is that its gonna mess with your head a hell of a lot more than she's gonna be thinkin about it so just go get drunk with your mates!
usually that should pass a day or two and lo and behold there should be a text waitin for ya at the other end of your binge. if not meh, text her best mate
This is some of the best advice I've heard. Mainly because I'm in the "falling hard" bit right now...
Expect to be **** all over by her. That is my negative bitter side brought back to life very recently thanks to a girl I have the joy of living with next year. We were living together anyway before we got it on. Genuine strong chemistry/passion, but would rather stay with the 'such a nice guy' boyfriend, depsite talking for hours about things she liked about me to mine and her best friend.. Realised shes a bit of a bad egg and not really 'Mrs Material'.
My positive cheery side. Hope she is worth falling for! make it clear to her that you are and if shes a good egg, keep her and you'll have something great. Enjoy the time you spend together.
Some more inspiring advice:
'Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened'
That's probably the one of the downsides to the communication age, you send a text/email and if you don't get a prompt reply your mind starts to wander... Are they still interested? What are they up to that's more important than me? Who else are they communicating with? etc. You then start checking your email regularly hoping for a reply and heart skips a beat if something comes through or your phone lets off a text alert.
Of course some people love that kind of stuff, but I actually find it all a bit depressing, sometimes verging on turning me into a virtual stalker..... "She's updated her facebook profile from her mobile, so she can't be THAT busy!!"
The irony is that I'm probably almost as infuriating, if I can't think of something suitable to write, I don't write anything at all, meaning that people may think I'm ignoring them
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This just gets bloody worse! Saw my cousin yesterday who is one of her best friends and told her she p***** me off the start of last week cos she didn't answer my txts and 1 of my phone calls so she goes and bloody tells her!! Now i get a ****ty txt from "the girl" saying how did she p*** me off?!
How the hell do i get out of this one?! Be a man and tell the truth or blag it some how?!
How the hell do i get out of this one?! Be a man and tell the truth or blag it some how?!