girl thread again...

Forget her, she'll probably come crawling back at some point for the drama, and then break up with you again. Try and do anal this time (unless you already have?).
 
R0Z4G said:
Right heres my turn now!

Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year.. and at the start everything was great we spent a lot of time together but last 6 months she goes though of stages of splitting up with me... I spent a fortune taking her on holiday this year and we did have a good time but after we got back she said I dont think its right.. no reason what so ever.. she said its the way I acted on holiday but I had a few drinks and I werent drunk and then said shes going home and started packing up her stuff! so after me telling her to calm down.. everything was fine we enjoyed reast of the holiday until we got back next day she finished with me.

I always go running back and beg how it will be different.. but i dont know what to do wrong we have split up a few times after that just silly little things because I have been busy working and cant see her.. she does it again or If ive been delayed because I cant pick her up from work.

gave her the most amazing birthday too spa day in a posh hotel I would always try and be there for her but she continued to be paranoid with me.
she wanted me to not see any of my friends and spent every minute with her.

until recently It has been fine again.... we get outselves ready for xmas I go pay to go for a meal at a pub and I have spent a fortune on some amazing presents on her.. she even made the hint of wanting to get engaged and move in start of next year so I even got her a ring she wanted.
Its hard work but on sunday she broke up with me again and said thats it I dont feel anything for you anymore dont speak to me ever again.
I tried texting ringing and no answer , I wnated to go round but she had a 6 year old and didnt want to put anything on her she threatened to even get the police if I continued to phone her. I just wanted to talk about it all and why has this happend. she said some horrible things to me. I have not done anything wrong for the way she acted like this!

Its been 2 days now and I have not contacted her, its so hard because I just want to talk to her... what do you recon I do? try and find out what is going on or just ignore her and see if she comes back to me?
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hahahahahahahahaha

i have nothing constructive to say, you sound like a stage 5 clinger white knight
 
RossG said:
I'm not usually one to post in threads like this, but that just sticks out for me. Surely there's no such thing as a fairytale relationship, which just shows how immature she is. Bail.
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Spot on chief! OP should concentrate on credability damage limitation.
 
lol pathetic some of these comments! oh come on if you love something your not just going to let it go straight away!
Let her be unhappy and upset because Ive got to that stage I am just not bothered!
 
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Hate threads like this, just move on, there are so many women out there, unless you look like the elephant man you will easily meet someone else.

Don't go back to drink in the same old stagnant well.
 
R0Z4G said:
Right heres my turn now!

Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year.. and at the start everything was great we spent a lot of time together but last 6 months she goes though of stages of splitting up with me... I spent a fortune taking her on holiday this year and we did have a good time but after we got back she said I dont think its right.. no reason what so ever.. she said its the way I acted on holiday but I had a few drinks and I werent drunk and then said shes going home and started packing up her stuff! so after me telling her to calm down.. everything was fine we enjoyed reast of the holiday until we got back next day she finished with me.

I always go running back and beg how it will be different.. but i dont know what to do wrong we have split up a few times after that just silly little things because I have been busy working and cant see her.. she does it again or If ive been delayed because I cant pick her up from work.

gave her the most amazing birthday too spa day in a posh hotel I would always try and be there for her but she continued to be paranoid with me.
she wanted me to not see any of my friends and spent every minute with her.

until recently It has been fine again.... we get outselves ready for xmas I go pay to go for a meal at a pub and I have spent a fortune on some amazing presents on her.. she even made the hint of wanting to get engaged and move in start of next year so I even got her a ring she wanted.
Its hard work but on sunday she broke up with me again and said thats it I dont feel anything for you anymore dont speak to me ever again.
I tried texting ringing and no answer , I wnated to go round but she had a 6 year old and didnt want to put anything on her she threatened to even get the police if I continued to phone her. I just wanted to talk about it all and why has this happend. she said some horrible things to me. I have not done anything wrong for the way she acted like this!

Its been 2 days now and I have not contacted her, its so hard because I just want to talk to her... what do you recon I do? try and find out what is going on or just ignore her and see if she comes back to me?
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Red flags, red flags everywhere. You sound terribly needy, she just sounds terrible and the whole thing could be taken from 'Enablers 101 - how not to continue making things worse'.

She's no good for you so leave her. You're also no good for her so this is, I suppose, a double whammy of good fortune. Concentrate on improving yourself and being comfortable with who you are before getting back on the dating game horse.

In short - and I apologise for not giving you the cliff notes version first - sever and be a better person, good things happen after that.
 
[FnG]magnolia;20858218 said:
Red flags, red flags everywhere. You sound terribly needy, she just sounds terrible and the whole thing could be taken from 'Enablers 101 - how not to continue making things worse'.

She's no good for you so leave her. You're also no good for her so this is, I suppose, a double whammy of good fortune. Concentrate on improving yourself and being comfortable with who you are before getting back on the dating game horse.

In short - and I apologise for not giving you the cliff notes version first - sever and be a better person, good things happen after that.
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This. Been there, get out now. Be strong, things will be rubbish for a whole but they will get better.
Good luck. ;)
 
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