Has making a pass at a woman just become illegal?

randomshenans said:
I don't think it's because we're told, but down to personal experience and how we feel. I don't feel vulnerable, regardless of the stats. Women are not as strong and I think that also comes into play. They appear more small and vulnerable and that's how they feel.

Put it this way, when I first moved out here on my own, I was going out on my own all the time and always got lost. One night I had my drink spiked and the guy followed me back to my temp apartment room without me knowing and tried to force himself on me and into my room. I'm not small and in the heat of it all I fortunately beat the **** out of him and literally kicked him bleeding down the stairs.
I came away with cuts over me and a bit of a battered face, but luckily I have the metabolism of an ox, so whatever he put in my drink took way longer than he anticipated to kick in. It did properly when he had left, I think aided by the adrenaline and I couldn't walk, passed out on the floor and woke up 15hrs later.

I could easily have a more fearful view on walking about on my own these days, but I don't. Maybe if it had ended differently I would have. That was once in my whole life, but women are frequently followed by creeps, tell guys no and have them ignore their advances, or generally tried to take advantage of. Whereas I am not.
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Back in my clubbing days i would steal unattended drinks.

Also if you hang around the bar a lot of girls seem to return double's saying "its too strong", you can have em.

I might be immune though, its possible.
 
platinum87 said:
I might be immune though, its possible.
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I have partaken in many things in my time and it normally takes a lotttt of booze to get me down, but this, when it hit me, was like turning out the lights. Like I said, it takes about 1.5hr for paracetamol to kick in, so for once that went in my favour. If you'd properly been spiked you'd know about it lol
 
randomshenans said:
I have partaken in many things in my time and it normally takes a lotttt of booze to get me down, but this, when it hit me, was like turning out the lights. Like I said, it takes about 1.5hr for paracetamol to kick in, so for once that went in my favour. If you'd properly been spiked you'd know about it lol
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Do you reckon that was an attempted robbery or a sexual assault?
 
randomshenans said:
Sexual assault. He made that clear when he tried to get in my room and was obviously hoping I was more out of it than I was. When I politely declined and asked him to leave it all kicked off and got violent.
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Jeez. I know I shouldn't be surprised by the depths if scumminess of some people- but this has done it.

Well done for sorting him out, by the way.
 
Efour said:
Why do women wear makeup?
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Obviously because they're asking for it, whey else would a woman wear it?
Just seen Nicola Sturgeon wearing makeup and she's obviously trying to turn all the males on around her.
Or perhaps from little girls they are taught makeup will make them look better and it's a lack of self confidence without it.

What do you think?
 
Most women just like to wear makeup, has nowt to do with self confidence etc. Why do we drive nice cars? Why do we have high spec PC? Why do we colour our power cables inside our PC cases? Why does GD often devolve into debates? Why does the whole world like cats so much?

People like what they like, no other reason!
 
The wife's just done some TA work with 13 and 14 year old boys and girls in a ropey school, some girls have nails so long they can't hold a pen properly, and sport false eyelashes worn with an abundance of make up. When she asked a senior staff member why it's allowed she got "They won't come to school at all if we try and stop it, then it looks bad with OFSTED".

Describing most of them as "feral" she experienced blatant indiscipline, outrageous sexual provocation amongst them and to male staff, whilst the foreigners start talking to and about staff in some Asian tongue if challenged, obviously insultingly. Commonly open threats are made to staff members. I could start a whole thread about what she has experienced, but suffice to say once i got the full gist of how the dump is run by a bunch of liberal wets I stopped her going back this week.

She thinks she's persuaded me not to take a trip out to see the head, but the jury is still very much out... Some people need their ears pinning back. I am quite proud how she stood up to them however, even if some of her so called colleagues looked aghast at how she handled the animals. And people say we must crack down on builders whistling at them....
 
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Sexual harassment has been illegal for a long time. Nobody should be making passes at women in the first place.
 
What do people actually mean by a 'pass'?

Anybody worried by this should just learn to talk to women and/or let them chat you up.
 
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mrk said:
Most women just like to wear makeup
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but I have to wonder what the poster was trying to suggest!

and absolutely 100%. SOME women do wear makeup to be more confident, I know women who wouldn't step out of the house without it.
 
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adidan said:
What do people actually mean by a 'pass'?

Anybody worried by this should just learn to talk to women and/or let them chat you up.
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Yeah, that's the thing.

I might have approached a woman in a club, had a bit of a chat and, if turned down, I'd just laugh it off.

I'm pretty sure that would be outside the scope of this legislation.

I get scope creep, and all that, but don't see it's an issue for non-lunatics.
 
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Murphy said:
Yea, you tell her. We can't have wives making their own decisions. :p
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When she's told not to discipline a 15 year old "As they might get violent" and she responds "If anyone here lays a finger on me they'll be eating hospital food" and she then gets the cold shoulder from petrified colleagues, then she's out of there immediately. When it comes down to it I am the boss, period. She ain't wasting her time feeling intimidated by some kid that's been short of a few good beatings. She was actually only too keen to leave, but probably felt it defeatist. I think she may be back in a decent small local school in a couple of weeks.
 
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