Heart broken

It will be easier as time goes on.
My advice is i wouldnt see her again for like at least 1.5 years. If you see her even as a "friend" it will only make it harder to get over.

I say 1.5 years cuz apprently its meant to take half the time you go out with someone to get over them.

Edit to be more precise it would be 1.75 wouldnt it my bad
 
Ripper said:
Apparantly this has had no bearing on anything but I can't help but feel that its made her think a bit, as she's now the only one left with a boyfriend out of her regular mates.
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What about her irregular mates? You know, the fat one, the one with bad teeth, the one who doesn't talk...
 
Most relationships that start that young are doomed to failure. You have to remember that at that age people are still growing up, finding themselves, maturing in general.

What was attractive at 16 is often no longer the case a few years later.

Move on and sleep around with some fit birds for a bit.

:)
 
You don't want her in a semi-close relationship. That will be difficult.

She'll end up snarling at any potential new women on your scene, and it could get messy.
 
Adsta said:
It will be easier as time goes on.
My advice is i wouldnt see her again for like at least 1.5 years. If you see her even as a "friend" it will only make it harder to get over.

I say 1.5 years cuz apprently its meant to take half the time you go out with someone to get over them.

Edit to be more precise it would be 1.75 wouldnt it my bad
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dammit, i closed the thread, then re-opened and you had ninja'd =(
 
being young does make you feel you wanna be free!, i spent many a nite, almost 3 months before i got with my gf (of near 8 mnths now) just talking that we just wanted fun and were scared to fall for each other or let go, we ended up togeva and though im perfectly happy she says sometimes she feels she missing out! it tears me up when she says that!
 
Women are Stupid kick her and move on, Seriously cut contact though, speaking from experience just this month, trying to stay friends to early does not work, it made it worse.
 
I broke up with my GF of 1.5Years in Decemeber and it absolutely devasted her, of course this is me talking in terms of the one who broke up and not on the recieving end but you would be wise to try and cut all contact for an extended period of time.

Dont try and pretend things are normal because feelings will always be there, ones that you yourself are used to and will want. This can cloud your judgement and you may make stupid decisions which would drive you both further apart. A clean break is what you need to prevent such feelings coming back to you, i mean how intertwined is she with group of "best
friends"? I mean this is where your only problem could arise as when two friends within a group become an item it can split and divide the group due to a break up. I have been lucky in the fact that most of my ex's have not shared the same nucleus of friends and have lived a distance from me which in turn made things much easier.

You will get through this mate, it just takes time. In the meantime wait for her to contact you however the problem you face is getting back into the relationship again for the same thing to happen two months or so down the line, ya have to think things through :)
 
Mate I've been there many times before. All of my ex's have been 16/17 when I started seeing them. Never works out IME so better to break contact and close that chapter of your life.

I was with my ex for 4 years when she decided to leave. Took me months to get sorted but now I'm enjoying life more than ever, at the age of 32. I lost most of my teens and 20's being with long term gf's. Enjoying the break now.

Its going to be hard. You will get through it and things well get better as days pass. One day you'll feel low then next you'll be fine. This will repeat until one day you just wake up and feel releaved you're finially past the point that's been making you feel crap for so long.

Chin up mate :)
 
Ripper said:
Yes :( As a sort of desperation act I took her to blackpool weekend before last just to get away for a bit as we'd talked about going and the sex just felt forced.
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for me this has happened twice, both with girls which i met who were both 16 when we started going out. One lasted 2 years the other 3.5 years. Over the years, the relation ship was good but then towards the end sex wasnt happening as much and they wanted more times with girlfriends and wanted holidays with them.

Its not you, its them (females). They change so much at this age its silly. The only thing you can do is cut all contacts and in 18 months you will feel better.

To occupy that time, get some brass round with plenty of alcohol and drugs. (this was a joke although not a bad idea ;))
 
Hey man, sorry to hear about this. Some thoughts:

- I'm 24, been with my girlfriend for over 5 years and being so young I do worry that she'll get the 'what else is out there' itchy feet. It could be that as you are still young she wants to see what's out there before settling down.
- So, don't do anything stupid like setting her house on fire, but don't be the lapdog friend in the hope that she might get back together with you.
- Finally, DON'T sleep with her.
 
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