Help with a girl...

EVH said:
You'd honestly screw a member of your own family over, for a girl? :confused:

Who's to say their relationship wouldn't improve and they'd be together for the rest of their lives? Either way, it's pretty low.

Find someone else. Keep her as a friend and maintain things with your cousin.
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Nope. But it's not my life and there is no moral hazard for me.

Also, OP trolled us with lottery win, I say fight fire with fire. :D

RomanNose said:
I am not being rude, but I think you just missed out on some sarcasm.
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Boom! Headshot!
 
LOL @ the above pic:p...fantastic:D

Well my advice jaffa my lad is to leave it well alone, if she really wants you then she will leave your cousin simple as that.

Im taking a guess here and what i think is that the reason shes being this way with you is because your cousin doesnt make an effort with her from what you have said. If its really bothering you that much, then get her alone and ask her straight out what her game is. If its only 'friends' then tell her to stop being all so touchy feely with you....pretty sure if your cousin found it, he wouldnt be too happy i would imagine.

Anyhow thats my advice, only way to nip this in the bud is by asking her straight out and getting a straight answer from her.

Good luck fella.
 
Jaffa_Far said:
She has told me I'm the nicest guy she has ever met
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shes with your cousin dude, possible big troubles ahead, big style. I dont know how well youre going on with your cousin but dude family comes first always. Not worth it imho, and youre just out of a relationship and already into another? i think you need to take a break imho
 
Jaffa_Far said:
I don't know what to do, she knows how much I want her, but she says we are just friends...thing is, she also said fat guys are cute and awesome, more cushion for the pushing...
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Sorry to say this but (without knowing much about her) as far as lots of girls are concerned she's quite likely being nice and would probably let you schlip it if you weren't fat.

You need some mutual attraction in a relationship. Is she also fat or does she take care of her body? Would you be attracted to her if she was the same size as you? Is your cousin fat?
 
From the way you've written the OP it sounds like you are trying to convince us to all say "yeah, go for it, steal her away."

Firstly, if she's behaving "inappropriately" with you (which I'm taking from the fact that you've said everyone thinks something's already happening) then who's to say she wouldn't do that with someone else if she was with you?

Secondly if she's having issues with her bf then its easy (and I don't mean this offensively) to think the grass is greener with you. If he's not giving her attention/affection then its easy for her to be drawn to someone who is giving that.

Personally I think you should back off a little. Give her some space to sort her head out if she's confused and if she does break up with him then I think it would be wise of her to have some time alone before jumping into a relationship with you.

I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it if you found out your cousin was trying to steal a gf.
 
She's with your cousin, by all means tell her how you feel but unless she dumps him and he's OK with you going out with her she's out of bounds imo.

Unless your cousin isn't a mate, frankly only women who have dated mates are out of bounds and get firing in there!
 
If I could believe any of this is true and not a fantasy dreamt up from some soppy film you've seen I would <insert genuine advice here>
 
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