Help with a girl...
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My cousin was away, my work mate was not.
I think the best advice is just letting it sort it-self out...I'm not going to tell her to dump Chris and be with me, even though he is a douche and only cousin via marriage...Zoe is also my best mate, and truth be told...I don't want to ruin what we have as much as I would **** her if she asked...
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Gay. 
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When I read the op the first thing that popped into my head as just how disrespectful you were to your now ex girlfriend and now your considering trying to steal your cousins girl from under his nose. Sounds to me you have some issues that need to be sorted out.
She won't ask, she already knows you like her - if she wanted to she would have already...
So you're screwing her behind your cousins back? Nice work *******
no he's making all this up to make him look interesting on the internet
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So you're screwing her behind your cousins back? Nice work *******
Derp.
He meant getting the bus.
ahhh I gotcha
Just show her his posts on here and I'm sure she'll rapidly loose interest
OP should read this
http://www.laddertheory.com/
and consider that if he obtained more $$$$, increased his confidence, stopped being her bitch and/or put in some effort to shed the flab he might actually be able to escape the friend zone
In particular - does any of this seem familiar:
http://www.laddertheory.com/
and consider that if he obtained more $$$$, increased his confidence, stopped being her bitch and/or put in some effort to shed the flab he might actually be able to escape the friend zone
In particular - does any of this seem familiar:
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I dont normally post in these sorts of threads but i will.
Shes with your cousin so i would stay well away tbh, work drama is bad enough but family drama? its not worth it.
Saying that im in a similar position except shes not with my cousin, work girl, we clearly like each other, shes kissed me a few times but has a bf, used to get on really well now we just fight / make up / fight / make up repeat because theres so much tension there and neither of us will admit it.
But dif is if we got together its only us who have to deal with it, you'll potentially have your whole family involved, is she worth that?
Shes with your cousin so i would stay well away tbh, work drama is bad enough but family drama? its not worth it.
Saying that im in a similar position except shes not with my cousin, work girl, we clearly like each other, shes kissed me a few times but has a bf, used to get on really well now we just fight / make up / fight / make up repeat because theres so much tension there and neither of us will admit it.
But dif is if we got together its only us who have to deal with it, you'll potentially have your whole family involved, is she worth that?
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Leave her alone you nasty little **** she has a boyfriend.
If the boyfriend isn't a blood relative or a mate then so what? Most girls will have several boyfriends before they get engaged/married and until they do they're fair game (unless dating one of your mates). I.e. the chances are that for any particular boyfriend a girl has she is most likely to *not* end up with him long term... she will likely be dumping him at some point in time and if you like her then just go for it - she'll either say no or she'll dump the boyfriend that was due to get dumped at some point down the line anyway... if the boyfriend was making her totally happy then she wouldn't be interested... she's not married.