Help with a girl...

[mejinks]

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Don't feed the troll.

Calm down dear, I think you asserted your Alpha status in your relationship. Does your GF now feel secure knowing how quickly you can lose your cool? If someone made a move and they obviously failed, then that shows you have a strong relationship.

 

[aln]

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Sorry dude, you don't get to demand what kind of lanuage I use, I won't bend my will to the sad hard cases of the internet quite so easily. That said, fairly sure you already said you instigate based on perceived slights, so what is it, are you violent towards people for reasons other than self defence or not?

 

[holymonk]

Impress her with tales of commitment, the story about your dog will suffice.

 

[GTO656]

It is nowhere near acceptable to have a relationship with someone who also had a relationship with your cousin. One of my cousin decided to steal from my Sister's boyfriend. Which was actually a good think since my parents were against the dude for other reason. But ultimately my sister has found a much better person in her life and has abandoned contact between them and I reckon she will never speak to her again.

 

[^TANK^]

Ok I'm done with this thread now, this forum has some nasty immoral cancerous **** doing the rounds tonight.

Lolly lol little aln pleasant dreams sweetheart.

 

[bainbridge]

You've shared secrets with each other you wouldn't share with anyone else? This aint going nowhere jaffa, you've got to keep that stuff out of it. Move on and date someone else who is single and not connected to family, wear a t shirt underneath and don't lie, keep you own stuff to yourself and dont try to find out all about her. Have fun and if it doesn't work out, move on. If she turns out to be another crazy like your last gf, move on, we've all encountered them.

You're single, enjoy yourself!

 

[dowie]

He tried his luck with my girlfriend not the other way around he told me this after I cornered him I made absolutely sure I knew the whole story from both sides before I went bat **** crazy and to be honest his face said it all!

I don't know why you keep throwing possession around :/ my girlfriend can leave whenever she wants too, hell I'll even drop her off at a chosen destination if she wishes. Its not rocket science when you're in a relationship you stay faithful to one another, if you have feelings for someone else then you split up simples.

Well given the above whats your issue with what I posted then? I wasn't talking about hooking up with a mates GF I was talking about the idea that a girl is off limits because she has a boyfriend. If you've got an actual issue with the below post, which you indicated you did have earlier then explain WTF it is rather than going off on an irrelevant tangent about your mate trying it on with your girlfriend.

If the boyfriend isn't a blood relative or a mate then so what? Most girls will have several boyfriends before they get engaged/married and until they do they're fair game (unless dating one of your mates). I.e. the chances are that for any particular boyfriend a girl has she is most likely to *not* end up with him long term... she will likely be dumping him at some point in time and if you like her then just go for it - she'll either say no or she'll dump the boyfriend that was due to get dumped at some point down the line anyway... if the boyfriend was making her totally happy then she wouldn't be interested... she's not married.

 

[FoxEye]

If she cheats on her boyfriend (his cousin) with him, then ultimately they break up, then surely he's done his cousin a favour?

Sure he'd be douche to do that to his cousin, but ultimately she'd be just as bad, and it takes two to tango Then his cousin could find someone who isn't a cheat.

Let's face it, if this girl is flirting and sending him 'come get me' messages, she's half way to cheating anyhow. If you're in a relationship and flirting with other people, you're basically a terrible person already, no?

So... go for it? Then you can both be terrible people and your cousin can ditch both of you

 

[Voltar]

Well didn't this get all nasty and personal then?

What I was going to say before I read the whole thread was:

Girl is nice to you. Therefore she wants to **** you? Don't flatter yourself. It's actually a bit sad if every time a girl is nice to you that you think she wants to sleep with you. She is dating your cousin. It clearly follows that she's going to be nice to you as... guess what?... you're his family.

In the alternative stealing someone you know's gf is a ******** *****y thing to do. Even if you don't know them it's still low.

Leave her alone. Go enjoy your life. It's never worth it.

 

[albert]

Ok, so, first things first, I ended it with my previous girlfriend on 17th May as I had enough of her crazy ****. Was with her nearly 3 years.

Righto, so, there is this girl I fancy the **** out of and I work with her. We get the bus together and sometimes on my day's off I will get it with her just for fun. She looks at me as more than a friend, she flirts, we constantly hug and mess about together, I've slept at her house. She has told me I'm the nicest guy she has ever met...1 problem...she is with my cousin (an item). I have been told by 7 other members of staff that the way she looks at me is NOT how a friend looks at another friend, they reckon it is something more...

I don't know what to do, she knows how much I want her, but she says we are just friends...thing is, she also said fat guys are cute and awesome, more cushion for the pushing... We've been out for drinks together and got ****** together...some folks at work think something is going on between us, and to be honest, I wish there was!!

What do I do?

EDIT: I would like to add, we have sooo much in common and we have both told each other things from our past that we wouldn't tell anyone else...I trust her with my life and vice versa...

Sounds like a gay episode of Friends

 

[Swifty55]

People are unpredictable You could be trying to tap someone's boyfriend/girlfriend who is incredibly unhinged. I'm a perfect example my best friend of ten years tried his luck with my girlfriend and the only reason I'm not banged up for life is because he out ran me. I had every intention of beating his skull in with a baseball bat with floor spikes in, every swing missed his head by inches. the **** played rugby so after 45 minutes of chasing him I gave up as he was much faster than me. He has since disappeared off the face of the earth which is a shame as I would love to have some private time with him.

Baseball Bat.. Lol.

Love people who have to use a weapon.

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

Have sex with the cousin.

Spoiler

YOU ARE THE COUSIN

Inderption.

 

[Akagi]

Oh god you did it, you started a thread about a love interest in General Discussion... Well, sit back and enjoy the thoroughly unhelpful ride

 

[ZG002]

Ask your cousin if you can go twos up? It's your best chance.... You seem the sort of guy who might like it... She seems the sort who would jump at the chance. Then ring Jezza.