I met a Romanian online and she comes to me!

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Metalface Mark said:
She should not be staying with you for starters, you cant go from 0-60 in one day, christ, i wouldnt stay with my girlfriend every day and ive been with her over a year, it would be relationship suicide to move her in with you straight away, she might be giving you sex, but at least make her work for you, you say you are not giving her much, id say paying for her flights and giving her somewhere to live is absolutely huge.

Im sorry to say, its unlikely to end well, she's 21, she's not some screwed on woman who knows what she wants, if you want to bring her over, then fine, but make her pay her own way and whatever you do, dont move her in with you straight away.
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Pimp her out?!

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Cheekykid said:
Yup, as I can be quite sensitive. There is no 100% guarantee so far but time will tell.



I said i'll be paying only for the basics
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No, you said you hadnt given her anything and she hasnt asked. Thats obviously not the case, surely she can afford her own ticket here from working on the site?

Put it this way, would you take something from someone you havent met? I wouldnt, if someone offered me something i would feel beholden to them and would not take it, she obviously does not have a problem in taking money from you, watch over time as the price of her privates goes up.
 
Cheekykid,

Do you know when her birthday is? (not asking you to say when, just if you know). If you don't, chances are her birthday will coincide at one of the days she visits you, something that she will let you know casually or somehow well in advance.

Regardless of how you feel for her you need to understand that whether she has any feelings for you or not, it's still a free vacation for her isn't it? You are also bound to pay pretty much for everything so she is getting something for nothing. Worst case scenario for her is she may have to have sex with you in return for various gifts and a good shopping spree - something that may not be as hard for her to do given her occupation (the I'm a poor student line is overused and tired in those websites - they are all students if you ask them!!!) or her obviously low moral standards.

Sounds to me like you only want to see the scenario that you like, ignoring and disregarding the fact that a woman might be playing you. You are not the first one she has come across that is trying to woo yer given the fact that she must be attractive and she knows how desperate men are when it comes to beauty better than most other women.

All in all, I hope it ends up a fairy tale story but given what I've heard, experienced and seen it would be the exception to the rule.

All the best and try to do the thinking with your upper head when you are with her or it could end up really bad for your feelings and financials.
 
bledd. said:
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That clip is even more lol than this thread.
 
I've just had an Image of the OP standing at the airport crying his eyes out 'cause she stood him up, due to having an important paper to hand in, or she had to do a re-sit etc etc etc. This list of excuses is endless.

This screams Troll. Good effort OP

But just in case it's not... Did you not think to go to Romania to see her before forking out cash for someone else. At least you could have get laid elsewhere if and when she stands him up. (Not sure of that's already been mentioned I'm shocked this thread is still going tbh)
 
Why the hell are people asking for this thread to be closed? Why are people so cynical about the OP being a troll? It sounds crazy, yeah, but I met a girl in Germany (good times ensued ;)) when I was arranging a holiday there (see website travelinlove.com), and I had only spoken a few times on skype to her before that (chat, not even the mic!!!).. at the end of the day I've experienced something great and those memories would never leave me. Also, she wasn't a gold digger.

I also met a girl off of skype (more long term and she came here for 3 months to work - part of her university scheme), I then visited her in Latvia and she came back to London to get a job and is living with me now (we're not together anymore - my decision) - again she was not materialistic or a gold digger but she was a beautiful European cultured girl.

Cheekykid I could imagine myself in your exact same position and hell I'd do it over and over with no regrets - the one thing to heed as some have pointed out that is that you should be careful (though after speaking to a girl more and more it becomes easier to work out her ulterior motives if any). Also another piece of advice is that if you speak to her as much as you can via skype (has she seen you on video?) when you meet her in real life it would realy just be like meeting a good friend (would help if you're nervy). Just because you paid for her ticket and would pay for her university means naff all as some have suggested but time will tell - and on a London salary it's easy to splash out :p. And at the end of the day if she does turn out to be a genuinely nice girl then that'd really show everyone when you've got a perfect 10 on your shoulder :).

I think people should loosen up a bit and accept something like this isn't just the OP trolling and with the advent of the internet (thank god) meeting beautiful woman is just that more accessible (H). I think the suave way you write your posts goads people here and it's pretty funny seeing people take the bait :p

Good luck and keep us updated!!! :D
 
To be fair I can understand what you’re saying and such, but after his last thread about the girl dumping him when it wasn’t either his girlfriend can you understand why people seem to not think this is real and he is a troll?

Real or fake whatever, I find it really hard to take in same as other posters after reading his other thread. His other thread was just way to freaky
 
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