I think my mother is loosing the plot

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benjo said:
But do you not aspire to having your own house, eventually a family and decent job? :confused:
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[TW]Fox;17936762 said:
I'm sure he does but a lot of people don't wish to live alone - perhaps he's waiting until he meets the person with which he wishes to buy said house?
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Benjo your post makes sense, but everyones different, the three things you listed family, house and good job. But i only want a good job i dont need a house as i already live in one and i dont want to have my own family.
You could counter my post with saying you might want a family and house later on, which i agree with but its not how i feel at the moment.
 
Well the Op appears to be a member of various hack forums, uploads videos on youtube of fps games he creates where you fire teapots and makes pants on head retarded comments with poor English on various blog posts such as:

Anddos25 on September 16th, 2010 at 12:42 am

i am sure wicket nods when chirs asks does he want a face book account , chris says not really so he must have mist it
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Anddos25 说：
2010 年 10 月 25 日上午 3:26

men create children with his penis
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Can't be a master troll, master trolls are far more efficient. I reclaim my previous statement!
 
An overweight, slovenly 27 year old man-child breathes loudly through the mouth, hunched over a 80s era beige and brown computer, frantically typing with his inadequate sausage fingers, breathing increasing in frequency and depth, garnering an asthmatic wheeze as the excitement builds - venting the frustration with his inadequacy onto unwitting forumites - pausing only to pick crumbs of food out of the keyboard before picking his nose and wiping it on his grey, saggy and stained sweatpants.

The room is infested with a litany of cups, plates and dishes growing an unknown variety of mould, the only hint of colour is an old copy of the Littlewoods catalogue lying splayed across the floor with the lingerie pages in view, contrasting with the dull, stained carpet barely visible amongst indistinguishable piles of monotonal clothing.

Downstairs, the poor mother holds her head in her hands, tears dripping down her cheeks into her cold cup of tea, in shock and disbelief as the realisation that the sloth-like abomination occupying the space upstairs has come to occupy her every waking hour, grinding down her will, her soul, her belief in the intrinsic goodness of the human species. Her pride and joy, a pestilent open wound, an indelible black mark on her parental record, ever demanding more and more, an insatiable parasite that will not stop until everything is gone and there is nothing left to give.

Oblivious to the despair and helplessness below, the hulking form upstairs continues to batter away at the keyboard, the letters and words forming on the screen reflecting the vitriol and self-loathing felt before pressing Submit, crusted eyelids closing over as the feeling of catharsis washes over. Yet the nagging, itching self-doubt remains, the urge to scratch builds and he reaches for the mouse once more, to begin the next tirade, and the downward spiral of his pitiful existence begins anew.

Does this sound familiar OP?
 
Dickyb0b, just because you paid the bills this week doesn't mean you get to make the rules. It's your mums house so she's the boss. The comment you made about her being childish, I have to disagree with. I think it's you who is being childish, I mean c'mon man, she's offering to wash your clothes now instead of you having to do it later ... what's the problem ?

Maybe your just a little frustrated with always being around your mum, so how about saving up a few quid and putting down a deposit on a house or renting a place of your own. Try and get some time away from your mum and you may actually find out that you need her more than you think.
 
I actually work with a bloke who is 42 and still lives with his parents. Never moved out, never had a girlfriend, never aspired to having his own home and family. He is a damn good worker and watches his pennies. As most guys at my job prefers the self-employed kind of contract, he works only 8-9 months of the year and spend the rest of the time bumming around the world and deep-sea fishing. He has visited a crazy amount of countries (70 odd iirc) and seem to enjoy life to the full.

Good on him I say, but not for me. If I don't work hard, buy my own stuff, look after myself and pay my own way, it feels to me as if I'm taking the P and slacking.
 
Dickyb0b said:
She just said do you want any clothes washing for work , i said no because the only pants i where i have on atm , i said i will wash them later, she says you're not washing them twice , even tho i pay for the electric this week i can't use the washing machine , how childish is that.
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But if you had to put on another wash later then it would use more energy, and your mum is just giving you helpful tips on how to save money and help the environment. You should have just whipped them off and put some new ones on tbh.
 
Doesn't matter if you can afford it OP, a waste is a waste.

Seriously, have some more respect for your mum. Or, you know, be around her less to the extend that you don't live with her any more.

But then maybe I'm just bandying around ludicrous ideas again!
 
I have to say some of you are really ripping the hell out of him.

I really hope I don't end up like this one day:(

But I do think the OP is over reacting, I mean if she has let you live there for so long then it can't be that bad.

If it has though suddenly got worse then I think its best that you talk with your mum about controlling your life or what she thinks of you.
 
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