I don't use sleep mode and never said I did and where Am i letting the computer have control of the speed?, I've set TURBO to 4.7GHZ and adjusted accordingly it's what you should do. I also adjust the VCORE myself not the computer. Turbo is the better option it saves on energy and is only in use when it's needed, there is no point having it running at 4.7ghz at high volts all the time.
I've done my research and you've done yours however if an ASROCK board or an ASUS board can do generally the same settings and use TURBO and have no cold boot issues. IT'S THE BOARD or the BIOS!. Until you can prove one way or another what the certified cause is of any cold boot issues i'd love to hear it. So far people have been told, its' because they didn't bios back up, then it's because they have quick boot, then it's because of the VTT.