Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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salami1212 said:
Nix, sorry to be nosey but whats so bad in your life that its making you feel like this?
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I'm not going to hang my laundry out here man. It doesn't matter what I say either as I'll only come off sounding like a whining child. Irregardless, it boils down to me feeling like I'm constantly fighting against a world that only wants to show me its ugly side and now I'm very very tired. I feel like I've been twisted inside to the point I don't even know who I am anymore and scared about where all this is heading. The stress I'm carrying is an accumulation of years; it's broke my back once before and I'm now in unfamiliar ground. I'm trying my best to bare this with a smile on my face, but I'm now beginning to wonder who that smile is really for. People try and tar me with answers but the simple fact is - I don't think anyone here can really understand (unless they've been unfortunately enough to have a nervous breakdown) exactly where I'm coming from. Hope keeps you going, but what do you do when you wake up and that hope is no longer there? It's an empty existance. What's worse is I don't think this is depression - hell, I've been seriously depressed enough times to recognise it if it was - I don't know what this is. I'm not sad or apathetic; I'm just very angry and I'm very tired. I feel old before my time and I'm not the only one who can see it.

Now, I need to deal with this the way I think best, and thats not by having to argue with idiots who think they've got it solved and instead go with what I think is right. For me, that involves removing this thread from under my nose because each time I click it, it is with a morbid curiosity that only seems to be detrimental to me.

I'm not taking away from people's happiness; I wish you all the best of luck even if you are being rude idiots. I'm dealing with this the only way I know how and that's by not picking at damn scabs.

I'm out.
 
Nix said:
I'm not going to hang my laundry out here man.
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I'm out.
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Look, everyone goes through bad times. Hell, im having THE worst year of my life, single, broke, no car, no girl, no job.. who cares, your still young, life can pick up.. You have a brilliant country to do whatever the **** you wanna do so go do it.. If your so depressed save up and go away somewhere.. travel the world lol.. I dunno, thats what im gonna do whee I get some monies..
 
Nix needs to go and watch "Yes man" take a leaf from Jims book.
Let go a little and just say to yourself "who cares".
Although, if you are out, you won't be reading that :(
 
Without trawling through all these pages is any one registered on Match.com? if so has it worked for you? Im thinking of signing up cos there is a weeks free trial on atm!
 
Nix said:
. Irregardless, it boils down to me feeling like I'm constantly fighting against a world that only wants to show me its ugly side and now I'm very very tired.
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Well, I can assure you I where you're coming from (without wishing to make assumptions) and I'm sure others do (this forum's pretty diverse) but I don't know why this particular thread affects you so. Those threads people start complaining about their girlfriends really grate but so what really? I've never had a girlfriend but I don't see why it'd grieve me to see others on a forum of all places 'get' them. I dunno if you'll read this either but still...
 
salami1212 said:
theres so many more people in the world that are so much worse off than you, just think about that..
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True. For starters, by living in the UK, you're much 'better off' than many people around the world. So many people risk their lives, and get themselves into tons of debt (to the human traffickers) just to get here.


salami1212 said:
Look, everyone goes through bad times. Hell, im having THE worst year of my life, single, broke, no car, no girl, no job.. who cares, your still young, life can pick up.. You have a brilliant country to do whatever the **** you wanna do so go do it.. If your so depressed save up and go away somewhere.. travel the world lol.. I dunno, thats what im gonna do whee I get some monies..
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Agree with the first sentence. However, the time period varies from person to person.. for me, the 'bad times' has been rather long but trying my best to get out of it even though 'things' haven't been going my way.


sixty said:
Don't let the proverbial bar-stewards, what or whomever they may be, beat you.
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I think Nix needs the full support of his family/friends before he can start 'fighting' again. It's hard to do it alone.
 
NeoReloaded said:
Without trawling through all these pages is any one registered on Match.com? if so has it worked for you?
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I took out a 1 or 3 month sub (forgot how long) about three years ago, didn't work for me.. thats why I call it match.con

Chimerical said:
I've never had a girlfriend
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If Nix has had a girlfriend, then that makes you 'worse off' than him :D
 
You got some time wasters on POF. Messages with contents such as "wow" will get deleted straight away, i've decided. I'm starting to understand why people would pay for match or dating direct, but I think I might persevere with POF for a little longer.
 
Ah that's nice to hear guys :)

Fingers crossed I find someone!

I have a date this saturday eeeek! scary lol I get so nervous. Haven't decided what we're doing yet though
 
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