I seem to have noticed that the genuine nice women actually use text speak more in their opening message than those who are seriously messed up in the head. Then when you talk to them you find they spell normally.
Corellation or Coincedence ?
These days im improving my image and just being laid back, not messaging anyone and letting them come to me.
Oh teh ironies!
Seriously though its just a waste of time.
The girls are either:
1: Good looking and intelligent etc etc in which case they are either just on their for a bit of amusement and self boosting. (They mainly don't exist at all)
2: Good looking but stupid/ignorant. invariably on their because they are in a tizz with their boyfriend and want to consider the fact that maybe there are nicer guys in their life than him, especially since they are 20 now, no longer 16; a time it was nice to have a badboy. Invariably though they go back with the boyfriend.
3: Uglyas but intelligent. Again they are a rarity and to be honest not that bad at all, and find themselves lowered to having to go on a dating site. However they are rare as sin and there is always the distinct possibility that they find someone from work/college/uni.
4:Uglyas sin and stupid/ignorant. The most common, the ones who embrace the breeding ground. Typical characteristics are high self worth, fall in love with you immediately, up for (more often than not, BEEN up to) anything, maybe a child. No prospects etc.
Overall I find the dating scene quite bleak. Lets face it, it's establishing a relationship online without any of the initial click or chemical bonding. Its driven either by lust (eh, she is goodlooking!), desperation (oh she messaged me back) or by sheer and utter luck....
Good luck with it all
