I've given up looking, it happens when it happens. Chasing girls only create expectations in my own mind. Now i am just going to wing it, don't expect anything, happy if it happens, but not disappointed when it don't.
In the past 8 months or so.
This doesn't include one that I like turns out to be a lesbian. (I seem to have a knack of finding them)
Got set up with a date through a friend. Date went okay, chatted non-stop for 2 hours. Into movies etc...except she is a, erm, not for a better word, tree hugger? One of those really deep environmental activist. I am not talking about merely into recycling, but she goes to marches about the environment, avoid chain coffee shops, the works. Plus she's like 3 inches taller than me.
There's one who I been out to lunch with before and kept asking me out to lunch every few weeks, i agree but then she keep pushing it back...I don't get that at all. She's also a sad person at heart. Having a lot of trouble at home, except she is quite negative about it all. Not that it's a bad thing but I rather date someone who is more positive and happy in personality.
There's one that i really liked but she hurts me more the more i see her...so not going there again. Not spoken to her in 3 months now...funny how i am happier now.
There's another one who i had a few dates with, said she'd call me, but never do. I called her to set up the first few dates...enough chasing, if she's not interested then meh.
So...is someone who's not an environmental extremist, likes coffee, not a lesbian (Bi-sexual is okay

), happy, spontaneous girl out there?
Are they that hard to find?