Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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It doesn't exist?

In the last hour you've implied Orange Peel a bunny boiler and had a dig at me getting a hobby.

Right...as for RTM your posts, it might not break rules in a strict sense but I like to think people can be polite to each other and police ourselves. It is nothing to do with the mod, you can stay within the rules and still come across offensive.

Btw, stop twisting my words, I never said abusive, I said abrasive.
 
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I've been messaging quite a few people over the course of this month, mostly are or were going well, until they decided to stop messaging me. Anyway, I had been talking to one person in particular over the course of this week and last week and plucked up the courage if she wanted to go on a date (to which she accepted, first girl who's ever accepted, most of the time they ask me out which is strange).

Now for some odd reason the people that stopped messaging me, started messaging back, and been asked out twice.

It's like when I went clubbing a few months ago, I was seeing someone at the time, and I litterally get no attention at all ever, all of a sudden I find 2 rather tall blondes sitting next to me..

Really does annoy the hell out of me!!
 
Sinny said:
Change topic slightly from above ;)

I've been messaging quite a few people over the course of this month, mostly are or were going well, until they decided to stop messaging me. Anyway, I had been talking to one person in particular over the course of this week and last week and plucked up the courage if she wanted to go on a date (to which she accepted, first girl who's ever accepted, most of the time they ask me out which is strange).

Now for some odd reason the people that stopped messaging me, started messaging back, and been asked out twice.

It's like when I went clubbing a few months ago, I was seeing someone at the time, and I litterally get no attention at all ever, all of a sudden I find 2 rather tall blondes sitting next to me..

Really does annoy the hell out of me!!
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Be more decisive. Maybe and this is only an observation, they were waiting for you to take the reins as such and ask them out.
If they reply, or message you first it's an indication of interest so you don't necessarily need courage.
However if you have three dates then maybe not, you don't seem to need any help. :D
 
ChroniC said:
Be more decisive. Maybe and this is only an observation, they were waiting for you to take the reins as such and ask them out.
If they reply, or message you first it's an indication of interest so you don't necessarily need courage.
However if you have three dates then maybe not, you don't seem to need any help. :D
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It's not that I don't have the courage to ask them out, it's mainly they ask before I feel I should ask them out. which is usually a week of light conversation.

My problem is they live miles away, I tend to say things faster than my brain can operate at, which involved me asking someone out then realising how much it'd cost getting there if things did get serious!
 
Orange Peel said:
I've had this happen a few times. One women sent the same 'hi' email 3 times over a 4 Month period.

Anyone who messages twice because they've forgotten about the first message deserve the big block button.
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Generally I give people a second chance, sometimes I stop messaging because I'm going through a really busy period and forget about it. though I usually tell them I'm very busy.
 
I am going to side with Fox and Orange P on this.

MisChief said:
I said I won't explain but it really annoys me when you all just think the worse of me.
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Orange Peel said:
If MisChief doesn't want people to comment on her posts all she has to do is stop posting about her online dating.
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IMO MisChief doesn't know what she wants and needs to take a break from this internet dating malarky. Come back later 'refreshed' and things could change.

Personally, I would LOVE to be somewhere near her position, getting interest/attention from the opposite sex (on these forums and on these dating sites) and has dates left right and centre.


Maybe secretspy needs a break too? Both are attractive girls (physically and possibly personality wise, but I don't know them at all) and it surprises me why they haven't found anybody yet. :confused:


Before you ask, I have nothing against these people and have lurked on this thread since the beginning but haven't posted for a while. This thread is one of my favourites on here and have learnt so much from it too.
 
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Got another girls number at the weekend but she kept asking me was I single and I did I have a girlfriend and that I best not be messing her about, she has a kid, so I going to bin it, dont want the hassle.

Other girl that I like and she likes me, went to Manchester for a meal with friends and she ended up coming, so sat near and chatted all night, was good, sat next to her on train on the way home, she is a has a kid but she is slim and pretty you couldn't tell, going to ask her if she wants to go out for a meal or into town for a drink but she goes on holiday this week so going to see if she wants to do anything on bank holiday.

Matt-Page said:
I can see why some of you are single, judging by the previous 2 pages of petty squabling :p
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So true, too much testosterone
 
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Morgoth said:
I usually filter people out straight away if they have kids already.
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I tread carefully, lot of decent single women out there, its finding the ones that are not screwed up in the head.
 
Morgoth said:
I usually filter people out straight away if they have kids already.
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I have several ways of telling whether I'll message someone

1.If their photo was taken inside a club toilet with a Johnny machine behind them, I'm afraid you won't get a message.
2.Pouting and Tango's, don't mix together or seperately
3.Obligatory boob shot, tried and tested, usually 99% of the time they have kids.
 
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