Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!
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It's funny how you can think of all this over one sentence. I texted guy 'A' saying I'm not feeling great and asked if we can rearrange for another day. He replied saying no probs and that there's no point struggling through if I'm not feeling well. I then replied and asked him when he's next free.[TW]Fox;19829307 said:
Guy 'B' then called me and asked me what I'm up to, I said nothing because I'm not feeling well and he goes 'I thought you had a date tonight?'. I said no I've cancelled because I'm not well.
"First thing she did after cancelling was tell some other bloke she wasn't going on a date". Really???
I said I won't explain but it really annoys me when you all just think the worse of me.
Millions of people apparently like Big Brother if the viewing figures are anything to go by, I'm prepared to go out on a limb and say they're in the wrong despite their numbers.
I don't really know MisChief and I've not read many of her posts in here about dating but it's not all that novel for guys and girls to have different interpretations of the same actions.
But you've not mentioned all the other people numbering hundreds of million who don't like Big Brother. Taking that into consideration your example doesn't really work
It's not really about it being guys v girls. Contradictions are contradictions whoever posts them which will become clear if you read through some of this thread
Oh please don't play the female card! I'd point this out to anyone who continually contradicted themselves. In fact I've given harsh but fair opinions to guys on here. They've taken it as a positive thing and not moaned about it!
Personally I'm not blaming MisChief for anything. When I was on PoF I have many great dates, made loads of new friends and took the good with the bad. I also didn't contradict myself several times when posting here.
Suggesting we're bunny boilers when ALL we're doing is pointing out something that takes NO effort to spot is very poor.
If MisChief doesn't want people to comment on her posts all she has to do is stop posting about her online dating.
From online dating or real world pickups?
You have a dizzying way of thinking about things! She didn't want to see the guy again, tells us as much, then when he asks for another date she say's "I'm not feeling well" rather than knocking it on the head there and then.
What part of that requires analysing or suggests a wild conclusion? It's clear you're sticking up for MisChief which is your choice. Trying to make out I'm some kind of nut job when the facts are in clear text and have also been pointed out by others is far more nutty than noticing something and posting an observation.
It's quite amusing how you're using sly insults about me not being rational when again I'm not the only one who's spotted this! I take it you're suggesting all the other posters are also irrational bunny boilers?
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This is something I've found quite common on PoF. Once they have your number it's like you're in a full on relationship.
My advice is to not encourage a text conversation as these tend to go on for hours. If you want to see them arrange a date and see how that goes.
In the past I've openly told someone they're texting is a little too forward and if things are to progress they need to calm down a little.
When did I say I didn't want to see the guy again? When did he ask for another date followed by me supposedly saying 'I'm not feeling well'?
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We are reading it differently because thats how it came across - she even seemed sad that he was concerned for her, surely thats a good thing... unless you wanted to ditch him.
And no, I've not been messed around in the past - I'm just telling it how I see it. It's purely personal opinion - but as its an issue of perception I think personal opinion is quite relevant
And no, I've not been messed around in the past - I'm just telling it how I see it. It's purely personal opinion - but as its an issue of perception I think personal opinion is quite relevant
I'm supposed to be seeing a guy for the 2nd time tomorrow but I really don't want to anymore. I feel as if all these dates are wasting my time, money and energy
Well I've texted the guy and said I'm not feeling great and asked if we can rearrange for another day. He seemed pretty nice about it and a little concerned
Do you really forget what you've written that easily?
Are we supposed to be mind readers and fill in the info that shows it in another light or take what has been posted and comment on that?
Firstly, I do want to see the guy again. If I didn't, why would I bother asking him when he's free again? Just because I said I really didn't want to go on the date today, doesn't mean I don't want to go tomorrow, the day after or the week after?
Secondly, he did not ask for another date. I asked him for another date.
Just goes to show that you're not reading my posts properly. As Ahleckz mentioned, some of you "mutate her words and decide that she is doing something which she isn't."
It's honestly got nothing to do with who's posting it and by that I mean a woman. It's just doesn't come across well and not for one moment suggesting female manipulation. Some people post what's on their mind without thinking how it looks. Men and women do this it's not exclusive. My original comments all those posts ago were only to suggest that MisChief thinks a little more about how her posts come across.
As people have mentioned before. Many of us don't know each other so it's important to get the message across in our posts
We're all going around in circles. You want to see the guy again and that's cool but your posts whether you think they do or not don't portray this intent.
I'm not going to bother anymore. How your posts read are clearly different from how you want them to come across. Now I know this it doesn't require any more thought.
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