Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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So I dated a girl on Sunday & think we got on well, she seemed keen & was sending out positive signals.

I texted Monday to say I enjoyed meeting her & looked forward to meeting up again.... no response.

Bit disappointed as I really felt we hit it off & she said she wanted to see me again. She could at least just say thanks but I don't want to see you again or whatever, it's like she's disappeared off the face of the earth, she's not been back on the dating site since.
 
bainbridge said:
So I dated a girl on Sunday & think we got on well, she seemed keen & was sending out positive signals.

I texted Monday to say I enjoyed meeting her & looked forward to meeting up again.... no response.

Bit disappointed as I really felt we hit it off & she said she wanted to see me again. She could at least just say thanks but I don't want to see you again or whatever, it's like she's disappeared off the face of the earth, she's not been back on the dating site since.
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This happens a lot mate. In my experience I've had 3 that I can think of who have said they want to see me again then dropped off the face of the earth. Funny thing is 2 of them have contacted me weeks later asking to hook up again. Probably after they've not found anyone better lol.


I had an interesting date last night which was the second with this person. To say she a little bonkers is an understatement. Here's a few points from the evening.

- She like to play games by not always saying what she mean. This is OK if flirting etc but she follows no system so I can't tell if she's being serious or not. She says I don't talk enough but when I do she turns her nose up as if I'm boring her. She says this is just playful flirting but does it ALL THE TIME!

- She says she's playing hard to get yet wouldn't stop touching me and getting very close, all the time!

- At the end of the date she basically said that she wanted to have sexy time with me but I'd have to wait until the next date. Not for one moment thinking I may not want to have it with her or have any say in the matter.

- I also told her I had to leave around 10:30pm as I'd been driving all day and needed an earlier night. Despite this she kept saying "Just 2 more minutes" which was OK for a while but at 11pm when I really need to go (40 minute drive home) she get's all "So you'd rather go home then spend a few minites more with me".. I'm I in the wrong thinking this is quite selfish when she only have a 5 minute drive home and isn't at work in the morning?

She's come out of a dull marriage around a year ago and I'm the first person she's fancied since then (I give her butterflies so she says) which is great except she's all or nothing. An example of this is when we're sitting togther one moment she's playing hard to get then the next she's all over me at the bar as if she's trying to show to everyone that we're an item.

Overall it was an interesting date and she's really attractive but she's just to bat **** crazy for me!
 
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She's properly mental, but I find they're always the best in bed.

I find it funny how you say "As if I have no say in the matter.", well, let's be honest, you don't really have a say do you? You won't be able to help yourself and she knows this :p
 
bainbridge said:
So I dated a girl on Sunday & think we got on well, she seemed keen & was sending out positive signals.

I texted Monday to say I enjoyed meeting her & looked forward to meeting up again.... no response.

Bit disappointed as I really felt we hit it off & she said she wanted to see me again. She could at least just say thanks but I don't want to see you again or whatever, it's like she's disappeared off the face of the earth, she's not been back on the dating site since.
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Something similar(ish) happened to me - I'm 'new' to this but it's kinda hurtful when it seemed like you both got on so well and then suddenly the person doesn't want to know you - how do people not get knocked back by this? Because at the the same time I can imagine it'd make me feel quite cynical about the whole thing/every other woman :o:p
 
Zefan said:
She's properly mental, but I find they're always the best in bed.

I find it funny how you say "As if I have no say in the matter.", well, let's be honest, you don't really have a say do you? You won't be able to help yourself and she knows this :p
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Why is that funny? I wait until I know if I was things to go further before I do anything more than kiss someone. When I walked her to her car she kept menting how her bra wouldn't stay straight and asked me to "Give her a hand" sorting it out. Green light in my books however as it was only our second date I said that she would be better doing it herself to which she said "You've passed the test" and went on to saying how next time "things would happen"

Unlike some men I have full control over when I take things further. Plus in my experience it drive them wild knowing they can't have their way when they want to :p
 
Got a phone number and organised a date for this Saturday with someone from POF.
Text each other a few times so far, but nothing stupid.
 
Orange Peel said:
Why is that funny? I wait until I know if I was things to go further before I do anything more than kiss someone. When I walked her to her car she kept menting how her bra wouldn't stay straight and asked me to "Give her a hand" sorting it out. Green light in my books however as it was only our second date I said that she would be better doing it herself to which she said "You've passed the test" and went on to saying how next time "things would happen"

Unlike some men I have full control over when I take things further. Plus in my experience it drive them wild knowing they can't have their way when they want to :p
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She sounds like a nutbag.
I'd tell her to do one if she started telling me I was passing test.
 
ChroniC said:
She sounds like a nutbag.
I'd tell her to do one if she started telling me I was passing test.
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I think she's just used to being a bit of a spoiled princess and isn't used to being with someone who doesn't shower her with compliments on command and who isn't easy to manipulate. I could tell it was really annoying her that her advances weren't being equally met.

I don't have any problem paying a compliment etc but I won't do it when someone wants me to.
 
Orange Peel said:
I think she's just used to being a bit of a spoiled princess and isn't used to being with someone who doesn't shower her with compliments on command and who isn't easy to manipulate. I could tell it was really annoying her that her advances weren't being equally met.

I don't have any problem paying a compliment etc but I won't do it when someone wants me to.
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Sounds like a good enough reason to ditch her then, she's gonna be trouble!
 
She's a few Months older than me having just turned 36.

Like I said usually I can figure people out but she's so random it's mind blowing. She pulls a face at everything I say whether she agrees or disagrees. Makes things very confusing when you can't read someone like that.

Forgot to mention the glitter thing too! For some unknown reason I had a couple of flecks of glitter on my face. Probably of a birthday card I'd written earlier in the day. She mentioned this several time quizzing me on if I was seeing other people and that because she feels so strongly for me she want's to know before she gets hurt.

I told her time and time again that she was the only person I've dated recently.. I counted 11 times before I gave up!

When I actually see this written down it still doesn't sum up how things went!

Luckily she doesn't know where I live or have my number!!!!
 
Orange Peel said:
She's a few Months older than me having just turned 36.

Like I said usually I can figure people out but she's so random it's mind blowing. She pulls a face at everything I say whether she agrees or disagrees. Makes things very confusing when you can't read someone like that.

Forgot to mention the glitter thing too! For some unknown reason I had a couple of flecks of glitter on my face. Probably of a birthday card I'd written earlier in the day. She mentioned this several time quizzing me on if I was seeing other people and that because she feels so strongly for me she want's to know before she gets hurt.

I told her time and time again that she was the only person I've dated recently.. I counted 11 times before I gave up!

When I actually see this written down it still doesn't sum up how things went!

Luckily she doesn't know where I live or have my number!!!!
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Oh dear god. No thank you.
 
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