Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

MoNkeE · 7 Aug 2012 at 14:58

Yes but a bit of tact when we're talking about people's future GF's, eh brah?

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:00

grudas said:
haha? puppy fat? cmon.. fat chubby arms, belly probably tucked away.. ew.. well its up to you.. if you think that is a healthy looking 23 year old girl then go for it.. i really dont care but i can state my opinion when ever i want.

MoNkeE said:
Yes but a bit of tact when we're talking about people's future GF's, eh brah?

personally I was only messing, so don't take it seriously

grudas · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:01

MoNkeE said:
Yes but a bit of tact when we're talking about people's future GF's, eh brah?

we are talking about a girl that sent him a message and he wasn't interested in her because she is the "clubbing bezzies etc" type kinda girl?!

i really don't mean to offend his taste or the girl but i just felt like expressing my opinion and i don't think i've done anything wrong

MoNkeE · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:02

Oh right, fair enough then!

In which case, she's a bit chubby for my liking. I'd put in to the swamp donkey category.

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:03

grudas said:
we are talking about a girl that sent him a message and he wasn't interested in her because she is the "clubbing bezzies etc" type kinda girl?!

i really don't mean to offend his taste or the girl but i just felt like expressing my opinion and i don't think i've done anything wrong

I have taste? seriously, me??? nooooo, im way too desperate to be picky

Howard · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:15

grudas said:
haha? puppy fat? cmon.. fat chubby arms, belly probably tucked away.. ew.. well its up to you.. if you think that is a healthy looking 23 year old girl then go for it.. i really dont care but i can state my opinion when ever i want.

Personally, the fact that she seems to have all the personality of dishwater would bother me far more than the fact she might be a few lbs overweight. I think she's rather attractive, physically.

regulus · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:43

What does the following mean?

'I like you, you like me. Let's get it on!'

This is from a girl I had a drink with last night. Had little intention of seeing her again and didn't text her today. This is what she sent me a few minutes ago.

Get what on exactly? She looking for the Bratwurst?

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:44

regulus said:
What does the following mean?

'I like you, you like me. Let's get it on!'

This is from a girl I had a drink with last night. Had little intention of seeing her again and didn't text her today. This is what she sent me a few minutes ago.

Get what on exactly? She looking for the Bratwurst?

I believe she wants to play hide the sausage.

Janesy B · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:44

regulus said:
What does the following mean?

'I like you, you like me. Let's get it on!'

This is from a girl I had a drink with last night. Had little intention of seeing her again and didn't text her today. This is what she sent me a few minutes ago.

Get what on exactly? She looking for the Bratwurst?

The way it reads is that she wants your chipolata but in reality she probably just wants to meet up again.

regulus · 7 Aug 2012 at 15:46

I see I see. I'll pencil her in for an earliest possible appointment. Little minx found just the right combination of words to get my interested again.

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:02

regulus said:
I see I see. I'll pencil her in for an earliest possible appointment. Little minx found just the right combination of words to get my interested again.

oh dear.

all you regular POF people, how do I stop people being on that 'my conversations' bar in mail? I have deleted messages from them but they still show up there as online and its annoying, really really annoying.

MisChief · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:16

I don't think you can do anything about that 'online' status bar thing. Just carry on sending lots of messages, you'll soon be so busy replying to emails that you'll forget it's even there

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:20

MisChief said:
I don't think you can do anything about that 'online' status bar thing. Just carry on sending lots of messages, you'll soon be so busy replying to emails that you'll forget it's even there

haha im happy with just the one person at the mo

don't want to get greedy

MisChief · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:29

paradisiac said:
haha im happy with just the one person at the mo don't want to get greedy

I wouldn't just focus on the one person though... Not when it's still early days and you've not even met the girl or anything yet.

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:32

MisChief said:
I wouldn't just focus on the one person though... Not when it's still early days and you've not even met the girl or anything yet.

nah once I get back from my hols I will re focus my efforts. but trying to juggle people and a trip away for starting to get to me. I got lazy in my replies and probs came across as a bit of a jerk.

Russinating · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:42

Me and my girlfriend celebrated our 2 year anniversary back in April after meeting on OkCupid

. I tried online dating for a while (about a year) but there's always light at the end of the mucky tunnel!

Keep up with it!

Gzero · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:51

paradisiac said:
nah once I get back from my hols I will re focus my efforts. but trying to juggle people and a trip away for starting to get to me. I got lazy in my replies and probs came across as a bit of a jerk.

I heard gurls love a bad boy...

paradisiac · 7 Aug 2012 at 21:52

Gzero said:
I heard gurls love a bad boy...

saying that, I don't think any have got the hint. I just feel bad, like im being short with them. whereas this other one just feel less effort so I have a proper conversation every time.

Janesy B · 7 Aug 2012 at 22:04

paradisiac said:
haha im happy with just the one person at the mo don't want to get greedy

I was talking to 3 at once and still ended up with **** all, don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Narj · 7 Aug 2012 at 22:11

paradisiac said:
saying that, I don't think any have got the hint. I just feel bad, like im being short with them. whereas this other one just feel less effort so I have a proper conversation every time.

Don't worry about it. Don't commit or build idealistic pictures in your head. Keep your options open!

The worst thing is that when you're with someone you get loads of offers. Being in a relationship must change something fundamentally that's instantly picked up by women. Probably the stupid grin on your face after yet another sleepless night I suppose but who knows?