Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I haven't had that problem although I don't use it much TBH, I've given up on it and I'm fed up of meeting "slim" women who turn out to be a bit, shall we say, portly.

There's an *amazing* excerpt from a book called "Freakonomics" by Levitt & Dubner regarding this... trying to Google now but not having much luck. Will post back if I can find it!

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Suman
 
Well I've got me a wee date to look forward to after this week of hell which is Uni :p

Been messaging for a while on PoF then quickly moved onto texts and we're gonna get together at some point this weekend :D quite looking forward to it.
 
Good Luck man!!...

Hope it goes as well as mine currently is!... we did the same.. Messaging, Texting.. the we met up.. been seeing each other for just over a week now!!. :) :) :)
 
Just remember, when she invites you back: 'No' means 'Yes'.

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Good Luck man!!...

Hope it goes as well as mine currently is!... we did the same.. Messaging, Texting.. the we met up.. been seeing each other for just over a week now!!. :) :) :)

Nice one mate!

Yeah we'll see what happens, its always the case of does the conversation and how you get along translate in person. Just going to go for a nice casual drink which is always good to get to know each other better.

Though PoF as it is works fine but I do find it quite funny how many people are paying for the "serious member" thing on their profiles.
 
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Though PoF as it is works fine but I do find it quite funny how many people are paying for the "serious member" thing on their profiles.

It's not that many actually. Markus has been upgrading profiles for free to promote the 'service'.

This thing about girls having an average figure is hilarious. The problem is overweight girls do fall in to the average category these days. It's just a bit misleading as you don't think about it this way. The myspace angles are constant.

I'm not being a **** by the way, I just prefer slim girls because I am a slim guy.

I'm fed up with match.com now as well. Response rates are horrendous in comparison to POF. Once my membership there expires.... never again.
 
This thing about girls having an average figure is hilarious. The problem is overweight girls do fall in to the average category these days. It's just a bit misleading as you don't think about it this way. The myspace angles are constant.

I'm not being a **** by the way, I just prefer slim girls because I am a slim guy.

I'm fed up with match.com now as well. Response rates are horrendous in comparison to POF. Once my membership there expires.... never again.

You are correct about the average thing, you have the balance of girls who dont want to put slim or what not and then you have the girls who dont want to put "a few extra pounds".

Thats when full length shots become a must in terms of finded a girl on there if you really are concerned about the size...I for one am :p I'm a slim guy so no point in dating someone mahoosive :D

Anyways pics wise what seems to be working out well for me is the good old Capt.Jack look from past halloweens and also an pic I put up which every girl seems to think I look like Mickey from Eastenders (Joe Swash) which is of course to them a good thing :p thank god I dont talk like him though :D
 
Hmmm there's a few in Jersey but I haven't made an account so can't see much.

May as well give it a try, if I get myself out of this financial situation (a women would kill me right now).

Better than dating chicks in Canada/Scandinavia etc... all that money on flights :(

The scary thing though is everyone seems to know someone you know over here >_<.
One wrong move and !*bamf*! everyone knows!
 
I've been single for nearly a year now and I'm thinking of getting back onto the dating scene. Thing is I wouldnt know where to start with writing a profile lol!

I wouldnt want to sound boring and I wouldnt want to come across weird either lol

any tips

obviously I'm not going to sit at home just relying on the internet but I dont go out that often and recently ive been busy at weekends so its proven difficult to meet someone.
 
Lol Plentlyoffish love it, best place to pick up bored mothers ie Milf, being 33 it's easy to get them.

Im currently talking to a 36 year old Mother with 2 kids, that seems extremely keen on

Im off work for 2 weeks soon so intend going meeting her, go for a drink then back to her's as she lives a good few miles away from me :).

So far thanks to Plentyoffish I've been to:-

Southport, Notch
North Wales, Notch after a couple of meets
Bradford, Notch,Notch,Notch :-p she was a randy bugger
Preston,Notch
Liverpool twice, Notch & a failure :(

& My current Target is in Grimsby

All ladies have been in the 30's & one in her 40's lol

I might actually meet somebody one day that i will settle down with but atm im having to much fun going on tour. :)
 
There are a few apps, most of which suck. However, I went on 'are you interested' which flashes up pictures or people. Clicked yes on a few and had some replies. One of which is going very well.

Other than that I've had a good run of people randomly sending a friends request or email. Currently exploring a few of those :)

Met my Ex of 6 months through "are you interested" on FB :p
 
Well after a few quiet weeks on PoF I received 3 emails last night.

One is a 9/10 but seems to be boarderline psychotic. Luckily she lives miles away so one away mission could be on the cards.

Number 2 is your typical 30 something "I've been messed around and just want a nice guy" who wrote a lovely email but tended to dwell on her lack of confidence. Will give her another chance to 'impress'

Number 3, sent the usual "Hi, how's you" message which I really dislike. If you can't be bothered to write a little bit I can't be bothered to reply.

One thing I've found though is most get really clingy even after a couple of emails. God knows what they're like after you've met them! I'm going to change my 'looking for' from long term to dating to see what that brings.

As bad as it sounds I'm quite enjoying playing with some of the women who love themselves a little too much. You view their profile then move on only to get an email saying "Hey, you looked at me but didn't send a message" How much of a big head do you have to be to say something like that. Currently I've got one lady on the hook who can't write a message without fishing for compliments. It's a challange to reply to her without playing her game while keeping her interested enough to write back :D
 
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Well I've got me a wee date to look forward to after this week of hell which is Uni :p

Been messaging for a while on PoF then quickly moved onto texts and we're gonna get together at some point this weekend :D quite looking forward to it.

You are at UNI and you are using PoF to meet chicks, /sigh.
 
You are at UNI and you are using PoF to meet chicks, /sigh.

Well considering im doing an Architecture post grad the oppurtunity isnt great at times with the amount of time spent working....kinda stuck in your own department. Plus the Union is littered with stupid 18 year olds....not that its always a bad thing ;)

Plus Fendi it's not a bad way to meet girls at all, dont knock it until you've tried, plus there are plenty of arguments about the benefits of getting to know them this way rather than in bars and clubs. Plenty of students on there doing exactly the same thing.
 
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