Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

purplesky · 13 Jul 2013 at 19:48

grudas said:
is that your mate?

I couldn't believe it when he sent me those 2 pictures above of her. The txt messages he's getting from her are filthy and he feels like a complete mug to have been caught up in all this. I told him NOT to communicate with her and NOT to give his mobile out. Now this desperate person/thing as depicted in the above pictures won't leave him alone.

purplesky · 13 Jul 2013 at 19:52

And one more for laughs - forgot he sent me 4, can't find the 4th one though although they're all frightening. It really doesn't get much scarier.

Uploaded with ImageShack.com

Janesy B · 13 Jul 2013 at 19:57

Oh dear.

mrk · 13 Jul 2013 at 19:59

Yas786 · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:05

Time for your mate to change his number or just tell her nicely that he is not interested in her anymore.

Cant guarantee it will work with him telling her straight, some women just dont get the message but if all fails...change the number.

LOL feel sorry for your mate, a mate of mine had a similar issue but the idiot ended up sleeping with her then deciding that he didnt want to know her. Cue her sending 100's of racist texts

...in the end he reported her to the police for harrassment and since then he hasnt heard a word. Told him next time not to go round sleeping with women if he doesnt want the hassle

.

Derek W · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:13

When you say 'mate'........

purplesky · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:18

Yas786 said:
Time for your mate to change his number or just tell her nicely that he is not interested in her anymore.

Cant guarantee it will work with him telling her straight, some women just dont get the message but if all fails...change the number.

LOL feel sorry for your mate, a mate of mine had a similar issue but the idiot ended up sleeping with her then deciding that he didnt want to know her. Cue her sending 100's of racist texts...in the end he reported her to the police for harrassment and since then he hasnt heard a word. Told him next time not to go round sleeping with women if he doesnt want the hassle.

I don't think he would prefer to change his number, and believe me he has tried a few things to get rid including telling her exactly what he thinks she looks like. I really can't believe someone as horrid looking could even think anyone would date them. I've told him to ignore the txts as they will eventually stop.

Yas786 · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:22

purplesky said:
I don't think he would prefer to change his number, and believe me he has tried a few things to get rid including telling her exactly what he thinks she looks like. I really can't believe someone as horrid looking could even think anyone would date them. I've told him to ignore the txts as they will eventually stop.

Well i suppose shes bored so has nothing better to do but to troll your mate with these texts

.

But i suppose at some point she will find a new target and forget about him.

Begbie · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:29

Janesy B said:
Because that's the only type of woman that will message a man first.

I'm going on a date 3rd date with a slim, blonde, and pretty Irish girl this week and she messaged me first

But yeah normally it's only fat munters that message you first.

Prophet · 13 Jul 2013 at 20:38

Janesy B said:
Because that's the only type of woman that will message a man first.

It's true that mostly physically challenged women mail first but most of my dates were with women who emailed me first, and I'm very picky on looks.

In my experience if you're only getting rough women emailing you it's either because you have a rubbish profile or are below par in the looks department.

I'm no Brad Pitt but a decent profile with some good pictures go a very long way.

SouthEastBlue · 13 Jul 2013 at 21:04

wnb said:
I met my wife over 10 years ago on Datingdirect. Now married 8 years and have a son and daughter. Made myself a shopping list and the wife ticked all the boxes She was the second date through the webiste.

Congrats! See guys, that's at least two of us who've hooked up successfully via internet dating!

As for the pics of the woman

eek

above... Well... Even ugly people wanna find love, just make sure you don't encourage where it's not wanted!

Worst case scenario bin your simcard and change your numbers!

Neil79 · 13 Jul 2013 at 22:52

Thanks for putting yourself forward

The production team may be in contact with you to discuss your future date.
Good luck.

Know someone's that's perfect match? Give a friend a nudge.

Nothing to lose, not saying what I just did!

Kerplunk · 13 Jul 2013 at 23:50

Why is it everytime, I speak to a girl we get on really well, then like 3 days later it all fizzles out...rinse and repeat...

Jambo · 13 Jul 2013 at 23:54

Kerplunk said:
Why is it everytime, I speak to a girl we get on really well, then like 3 days later it all fizzles out...rinse and repeat...

Do you mean at email stage? Maybe you should try escalating it quicker. Get number and call to arrange a date.

maj · 14 Jul 2013 at 01:03

I'm in a similar position. Was talking to someone on POF since Monday for three days and up until that point had 14 messages from her (she would usually replying within an hour). Since then though I've heard nothing from her. She's currently working away in Bristol till the end of the month so arranging a date was going to have to wait anyway. Just don't know if it's worth messaging her again or not.

Stumble Bum · 14 Jul 2013 at 01:37

I give up!!!

Just got back from a 9 hour date, spent in beer gardens all day. Had a perfect date, laughing all day long, I drop her off back to hers, next thing I know she's kinda all over me in the car. We eventually say our goodbyes. Now I'm back home she's dodging the second date question.....

I quit life!

Jambo · 14 Jul 2013 at 02:04

Stumble Bum said:
I give up!!!

Just got back from a 9 hour date, spent in beer gardens all day. Had a perfect date, laughing all day long, I drop her off back to hers, next thing I know she's kinda all over me in the car. We eventually say our goodbyes. Now I'm back home she's dodging the second date question.....

I quit life!

Lol! Calm down and have some patience man.

LordSplodge · 14 Jul 2013 at 08:15

Stumble Bum said:
I give up!!!

Just got back from a 9 hour date, spent in beer gardens all day. Had a perfect date, laughing all day long, I drop her off back to hers, next thing I know she's kinda all over me in the car. We eventually say our goodbyes. Now I'm back home she's dodging the second date question.....

I quit life!

Nine hour date? She's probably avoiding a second date out of fear if boredom.

oh and you missing the signs to go in for 'coffee'

Berath · 14 Jul 2013 at 10:36

Stumble Bum said:
I give up!!!

Just got back from a 9 hour date, spent in beer gardens all day. Had a perfect date, laughing all day long, I drop her off back to hers, next thing I know she's kinda all over me in the car. We eventually say our goodbyes. Now I'm back home she's dodging the second date question.....

I quit life!

Yes Be patient.

You don't know yet what she has going on in her life. It may be that she knows if she says yes she will be totally committing herself and wants to be 100% sure in her own mind.

Stumble Bum · 14 Jul 2013 at 11:10

Yeah, think I've jumped the gun

2nd date seems to be going ahead now, she even just said herself that she doesn't give a lot away. Ignore my post haha, think I'm just going off the previous girl who basically did the same and was a time waster.