Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Been talking to this girl still, second day now with lots and lots of long back and forth messages. I'm actually looking forward to her next reply!, thing is.. is it too early to mention my mobile number or ask for hers?.

I feel the spark is there but i usually jump the gun too fast :(
 
Neil79 said:
Been talking to this girl still, second day now with lots and lots of long back and forth messages. I'm actually looking forward to her next reply!, thing is.. is it too early to mention my mobile number or ask for hers?.

I feel the spark is there but i usually jump the gun too fast :(
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Same, I spent the whole day doing no work and emailing someone who contacted me this morning. She way out of my league though so well nervous of asking for any numbers.
 
BrightonBelle said:
My pipeline has dried up :( good job I'm on hols on friday!

BB x
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Likewise. Still gutted about the girl who was a month out of a 7 year relationship. She never said no, but you don't know you're ready till you meet the next guy I suppose. She did take herself off PoF though.

There's not a lot od people on that are too close to me so I might take myself off until I'm driving again in 6 weeks. Still want to meet people despite that last date and being quite taken back by her, but I kinda feel bad at the same time. Making myself feel like a proper bloke now, haha. Like that will ever happen, I'm a right bender compared to most blokes!

As for the half naked abs guy, I was logged in. Maybe he fancies a trip up north ;) <3


As for phone numbers. I've had 3 people give me numbers within a couple hours of messaging although I kept using the mail feature until I was happy they weren't time wasters. It's not like you're asking for a number, you're putting yours out there if they choose to, which isn't rude nor too forward in my opinion.
 
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I really should create a profile somewhere and try my luck at online dating, but honestly It's been so long since I've been in a relationship I'm not even sure how to function in one. Not to mention I'm pretty crap socially, I don't seem to be able to carry on a proper conversation other than asking questions about themselves really.

It just all seems pretty daunting, other people I see, or my friends etc all just seem to find things so easy, where's I more often than not walk away from a conversation looking/sounding stupid wondering why I said the things I did, or in the way I did it.

Maybe I'm a lost cause :p
 
Broken Hope said:
I really should create a profile somewhere and try my luck at online dating, but honestly It's been so long since I've been in a relationship I'm not even sure how to function in one. Not to mention I'm pretty crap socially, I don't seem to be able to carry on a proper conversation other than asking questions about themselves really.

It just all seems pretty daunting, other people I see, or my friends etc all just seem to find things so easy, where's I more often than not walk away from a conversation looking/sounding stupid wondering why I said the things I did, or in the way I did it.

Maybe I'm a lost cause :p
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Get yourself on www.plentyoffish.com, post the profile here so we can critique it, then see if you get any messages your way before trying to message anyone else.

You could always ask us for advice, that's what this thread is for! Just be yourself. You seem to think you're useless so have a joke about it. Not all ladies are as narrow minded as you think they might be. I'm pretty socially inept, I just be myself and see how it goes. There's not a lot to lose to be honest!
 
Broken Hope said:
I really should create a profile somewhere and try my luck at online dating, but honestly It's been so long since I've been in a relationship I'm not even sure how to function in one. Not to mention I'm pretty crap socially, I don't seem to be able to carry on a proper conversation other than asking questions about themselves really.

It just all seems pretty daunting, other people I see, or my friends etc all just seem to find things so easy, where's I more often than not walk away from a conversation looking/sounding stupid wondering why I said the things I did, or in the way I did it.

Maybe I'm a lost cause :p
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Don't fret too much, I'm pretty much the same lol
 
bAz^uk said:
Same, I spent the whole day doing no work and emailing someone who contacted me this morning. She way out of my league though so well nervous of asking for any numbers.
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Well, if she contacted you first, or even replied to you, then she can't be that much out of your league. Go for it!
 
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