Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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Too late. You ditched him without even letting him know in person.

It would be interesting to read your profile again to see if you come across on there as you do on here.
Well to be fair.. We were queuing to get up the stairs for the upstairs bar, the bouncer happened to stop me and my friend because they can only allow a number of people up at a time.. He had already gone up and didn't even look back to see if we were behind him..

So we thought, might as well take his opportunity to leave.. At least I texted him to say I'm leaving!!
 
This morning he texted me and asked if I'd like to meet up again this week.. Do I reply and say he's not my type, or do I just ignore him?? I don't want to be a bitch but I also don't want to lead him on lol

So you basically spent almost no time at all with the guy and yet he's already not your type? I can kinda see why you're single if you act this way. Unless I'm wrong, your other post seems to suggest you didn't even get into the party with the guy.
 
So you basically spent almost no time at all with the guy and yet he's already not your type? I can kinda see why you're single if you act this way. Unless I'm wrong, your other post seems to suggest you didn't even get into the party with the guy.
But why spend more time with him when the outcome will still be the same? I'm not physically attracted to him (he looked diff in pics) so I don't think spending more time getting to know him would've made a difference.
 
So you basically spent almost no time at all with the guy and yet he's already not your type? I can kinda see why you're single if you act this way. Unless I'm wrong, your other post seems to suggest you didn't even get into the party with the guy.

Bit harsh really, if you don't like someone then you don't like someone. Plus she was there for an hour or so...
 
But why spend more time with him when the outcome will still be the same? I'm not physically attracted to him (he looked diff in pics) so I don't think spending more time getting to know him would've made a difference.

Not hating on you or anything, was he ugly, or was it a matter of principle and honesty (ie he used angled shots to hide his real looks)?
 
If it was me I would rather hear a disappointing answer than simply be ignored. Just be polite and honest enough to get the message across without crushing his soul like some evil witch and then everybody will walk away happier.
 
Not hating on you or anything, was he ugly, or was it a matter of principle and honesty (ie he used angled shots to hide his real looks)?
He wasn't ugly, just wasn't my type in terms of style and the way he presents himself.. He had longish hair and wore a headband! Didn't have long hair in the pics :p

I haven't replied yet, don't know what to say :(
 
Just say that you're sorry but you've realised he's not your type, and that it's better to be honest with him than to be do what most girls do and ignore.

Nothing wrong with that.
 
Just say that you're sorry but you've realised he's not your type, and that it's better to be honest with him than to be do what most girls do and ignore.

Nothing wrong with that.

As above.

Nothing worse than not replying! Just keep it short and sweet.
 
Ok I've texted back saying sorry he's not what I'm looking for and he replied with no probs and hope I find someone :)

Another guy just offered to drive 70 miles to see me tonight for some passionate sex. Even though he is proper FIT, I declined his 'offer' lol :rolleyes:
 
Ok I've texted back saying sorry he's not what I'm looking for and he replied with no probs and hope I find someone :)

Another guy just offered to drive 70 miles to see me tonight for some passionate sex. Even though he is proper FIT, I declined his 'offer' lol :rolleyes:

Why the rolleyes? Lol just be flattered.

I wish some fit girl would make that offer lol and 70miles is not that far, I went that distance today for lunch.
 
Another guy just offered to drive 70 miles to see me tonight for some passionate sex. Even though he is proper FIT, I declined his 'offer' lol :rolleyes:

Would you like a medal :p

What does his fitness have to do with anything? Didn't you say you're fed up with guys who just want to get in your pants?
 
First date...total washout, on the pics she looked alright, profile made her out to be talkative, she was nothing like the pics, so they must be a fair few years old, and she hardly said a word - needless to say it lasted 40mins before i gave up and said ive got other things to do. On to the next one lol. quite fun this.
 
Having been on PoF for a couple of weeks now and to my surprise I have had quite a few messages. :eek: Its quite nice actually as I wasn't really expecting anything at all. A couple of them have been a bit strange but 2 of the women who have messaged me actually seem really nice (Why does there have to be two, in these situations I always make the wrong choice :p). Guess I'll have to get some dates organised :D.
 
The only thing holding me back now is my lack of 4 wheeled transport.. and a proper job.. but the girl I'm talking to at minute is pretty understanding, having some pretty long conversations!

If it doesn't work out atleast I would've made a friend.
 
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