Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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So I've been messaging this girl, seems really nice, seem to get on too, and have similar interests.

I was just wondering is there a right time to ask for a date. I don't want to seem too pushy, or not interested.

I've never dated somone whom I didn't already know. All my previous GF's were my friends before we went out, so I've never had to go through the whole dating ritual.

Was just curios how things work.

Get it down asap mate, try for 4 or 5 messages max
 
the not messaging stance does work if you give it enough time tbh,

I got messaging a cutie a few months ago on POF after she messaged me, and actually took the time to read my profile lol

i am officially now confused though, we had 2 dates, well 'dates' and thats where the problems started,

In my lingo a date is a way of going out man woman to see if the other person is worthy of a relationship? am i wrong?

In her mind a 'date' is a 'pre date' confused much? yeah i was and still am.

needless to say, she seems to have gone cold on me now, bloody annoyed, because she was a lovely girl and kinda got 'me' better than most people have the last few years,

on another note, might be meeting up with another cutie in a few weeks when she comes back from the lake district :D
 
Yea what the hell? a pre date, date? thats weird

If you meet someone from an online dating site, in real life, id count that as a date!

Talking of dates, anyone got any good ideas for the 2nd date?
 
Received a message this morning:

POF Guy said:
Yabba dabba dooooooo x how lovely are you xxx (oh ive become a poet and I didn't even know it, ouch, i just did it again lol)

Saw your profile and couldn't resist getting in touch, you sound so yummy yummy yummy x

I'm not on line too often, but would love to get to know u and see if we get on x

Would it be ok to drop you a text? if we get on ,thats great, if we dont click, then no harm done as was just a few texts? x

So hope to hear from you, you really sound very yummy xxxxx xxxx

0777 ------- xxx
xxx

W.T.F.... :o
 
Oh... You mean his message was not personalised??? Damn I thought I was yabba dabba doobly lovely :( :( :(

If he talks like Fred Flintstone then he might have a different idea of what "clubbing" is than you do. :p

Seriously, his message was cheesier than a tramp's feet.
 
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That Doris is texting me loads, Do I tell her I now look like a Mexican Bandito or just go over & soak up the Shock factor. :D < That is Not me. :p
 
Haha^^

I have been doing quite well for messages the last couple of weeks. I have just decided not to message anyone and see who comes to me. Had about 8 people contact me this week. One girl in her early 20's who seems pretty cool. But most of them are either 18 or 30.

I have dated an older woman before and don't really want to go back there. 18 year old's are OK if they are mature. But they are mostly a bit silly and emo.
 
I can't understand any Young lad that goes with an Older woman. There is only a small window where you can date 18 - 21 year olds so it is sheer Madness to waste that window/time on older women that you will be able to **** for the next 30+ years.
 
Sometimes I guess their confidence is attractive to me. At the time she had her own pad and I didn't.

Further into the relationship I stayed over. Her parents rang in the mornings and she would tell me to be quiet so they wouldn't hear me! This is a 28 year old woman. Turns out not so grown up. Heh.
 
28 year old woman over an 18 - 21 hotty = Madness. :p

You can date 28 year old women right up to being 50 if you keep yourself in shape, Like i siad before the window to date 18 - 21 year old hottys with Perfect bodies should not be wasted on old women that you can date later in life. :)
 
28 year old woman over an 18 - 21 hotty = Madness. :p

You can date 28 year old women right up to being 50 if you keep yourself in shape, Like i siad before the window to date 18 - 21 year old hottys with Perfect bodies should not be wasted on old women that you can date later in life. :)
:eek: :o

But it's not all just about perfect bodies of 18-21 year olds though is it :/
Some 28 year olds are in better shape than 18-21 year olds.
 
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