I have the luxury of having an XF90 FALD here and an Oled B7 for normal SDR viewing the XF90 is great but HDR content the Oled blows it out the water every time.
Nice sounds like your happy with your OLED. Not been my experience in that it such a white wash. But then again I don't have same TV's you mentioned so my experience is likely very different.
Interesting alternative viewpoint. I had discounted everything outside of OLED but as you say brightness is a major factor with HDR. I can probably hold on a few more years, by then, hopefully, the choice will be clearer.
To be clear, I think OLED is the way to go on balance. However there are aspects of QLED that are also attractive and for myself do enjoy using both depending on what I am doing. its why I cannot wait to see something like Micro-LEDs (granted not there yet) bring together the black's of OLED but colour volume / brightness of of QLEDs.