Man of Honour
Leave as soon as possible. The cost isn't worth whatever the benefit might be.
Is it a control thing?
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There's a good Jordan Peterson video on this sort of thing. Talks about how they are Freudian slips. It's not the specific action that is the root cause, it's just acting as a trigger to release emotions regarding previous experiences and events.
Underlying issues and angst, basically. Sounds like something that would do well to be dealt with.
Underlying issues and angst, basically. Sounds like something that would do well to be dealt with.
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Look i'm gonna give you probably some of best advice you'ev ever had.....
What you need to do is, adopt boxing stance then stand and bang.
What you need to do is, adopt boxing stance then stand and bang.
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Caporegime
See this is why you have to nip this stupidity in the bud early, my OH started doing that and I'd just take the blind down altogether.
Soldato
I used to have silly arguments with my wife about things like this, until my dad gave me some solid advice:
"Which do you want most, to be right or to be married?"
Sometimes you've just got to let things slide and avoid the argument. Pick your battles.
"Which do you want most, to be right or to be married?"
Sometimes you've just got to let things slide and avoid the argument. Pick your battles.
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Erm mumsnet is this way >>>>>>
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Learn her a good lesson.
But then people rush in to get married for the sake of getting married, because society tells them they should
Worst advice ever.
If you do not battle every battle, then the battle you end picking, ends up being a war. Or get a shed but by the sounds of it, you wouldn't be allowed a shed...
Think of it like training a retriever, if you do not nip in the bud at the moment, then it never ever happend
If you do not battle every battle, then the battle you end picking, ends up being a war. Or get a shed but by the sounds of it, you wouldn't be allowed a shed...
Think of it like training a retriever, if you do not nip in the bud at the moment, then it never ever happend
To be right.
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Ask them, then let us know the answer.
Soldato
Not all of us are facing problems with the same gravitas as receiving a text from a man signed with an x
Not all of us are facing problems with the same gravitas as receiving a text from a man signed with an x
Ha! Caught red handed : )
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But then people rush in to get married for the sake of getting married, because society tells them they should
It was 7 years before I proposed.