Its out of order, my sister is 12 and there is no way she is ready and it isn't just a big brother talking, she isn't interested in boys.
If she was ready she should be allowed to interact with males of her own age and not have pervy old men trying it on, its unacceptable no matter what culture you come from she would be too easily influenced and that isn't fair on her at all, how do you think she would feel?
to all trying to argue the point of it being different cultures having different values, can you say the same of middle eastern culture of stoning someone to death because they fell in love with someone their parents didn't approve of?
or the way women are treated in Saudi Arabia, in particular the thread that was in SC with the woman that was raped.
Just because its someones culture doesn't mean its right.
how is 12 yr old girl consenting to sex the same as stoning someone?
Disguised?Is this not Chid Porn in a disguised form?
A "young girl" (the phrase you used) is a young child, probably under 10. 18, 19 year old female people are young women, not young girls.By young i mean 18, 19 year olds. A 12 year old is a child.
That might or might not be porn, depending on the circumstances.It's not even porn, unless an adult in a bikini is also porn...
If you're going on biology, it's much more likely that she's an adolescent.She's a child. As a person she is 12 years old, regardless of her appearance she is still a child.
Off-topic, but I think it's worth pointing out that that was very far from being the norm and it doesn't happen at all now (you used the present tense, not the past). In the past, it sometimes happened during times of severe famine, and even then it might have been suicide rather than murder. It also happened sometimes amongst other Eskimo peoples, so why single out the Inuit?The Inuit leave their elderly to die in the cold and snow if it is deemed that they are no longer of any value to the survival of the community.
Any Age of Consent is going to be an arbitary line.
I think we can all agree that sex without consent is really bad. So the question becomes at what age does a person actually know enough to give informed consent? The problem of course is that question will differ considerably dependant on a huge number of factors. I have no doubt that some 12 year olds today know a lot more about sex than I did when I was 18.
However you can't draft a law on such a fuzzy thing as "knows enough to give informed consent" and so a line is drawn in the sand. Before that, they can't, after that, they can. Laws can deal with such absolutes much easier. What that does however mean is that sometimes someone can give informed consent but is still not legally allowed to have sex and additionally someone may be old enough to have sex but not really mature enough to give informed consent.
So across the world we have a whole range of what people consider is the appropriate age. All of them wrong and probably right at the same time.
Is this not Chid Porn in a disguised form?
Originally Posted by Balddog
Good point..
but kids can learn not to put their hand in a fire, they can also learn not to have sex without protection...
Learn!!
so we should let them all get aids and children then say "that'll teach you, won't it"
That might or might not be porn, depending on the circumstances.
I'd be wary of even looking at the pictures even in the context of this thread. From the descriptions, it sounds like they are illegal in the UK. If so, then looking at them would make you guilty of making child porn (a copy is placed in the cache on your hard drive - you have made it). Probably the least serious grade of child porn in UK law, but that hardly matters.
how is 12 yr old girl consenting to sex the same as stoning someone?