I had a feeling you might say Cornwall, nice to to see another user here from pasty land
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I had a feeling you might say Cornwall, nice to to see another user here from pasty land
Take him out on the lash to be honest
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I had a feeling you might say Cornwall, nice to to see another user here from pasty land
based on what? is this common in cornwall?
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You need to stop whining and man up. Go to the gym, think positive thoughts, none of this BS. Make friends with people from a club then socialise out further. Don't go instantly aiming for a GF if your in this state, you can't expect instant results either.
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based on what? is this common in cornwall?
I live in Cornwall, it's rubbish for pulling. I get by but I don't like here one bit, big cities in civilisation are much better.
Don't talk ********, I've been out with my brother many a time down there and it is wall to wall flange.
I especially like Sandsifter.
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OP, you sounds like a decent enough guy so I can offer some sympathy, but you do need to get your skates on.
I think your appearance, what you wear and how you wear it can make the difference between looking average and good.
So, make sure your hair looks good, or as good as it can look. Hit the gym and get into shape. Wear fashionable clothes, trainers and shoes. Look the part!
I think your appearance, what you wear and how you wear it can make the difference between looking average and good.
So, make sure your hair looks good, or as good as it can look. Hit the gym and get into shape. Wear fashionable clothes, trainers and shoes. Look the part!
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Don't, its not uncommon for people to think the worst when seeing there own pictures.
Pretty sure if others saw your picture they wouldn't think as bad as you do eaither.
And I doubt people see you in the street and run off screaming in the other direction.
I had similiar problems to you and I've also never really had any experience with girls. But for the past few months I've been doing things to boost my confidence and self esteem. Try doing free weights and cardio at home, go and buy some new cool clothes and just start going out with your friends all the time, then you'll eventually be confident enough to go out to clubs and bars, then you'll meet girls and gain experience.
I'm going to a club tomorrow with some friends in Wolverhampton and try my luck with women. I'm surprisingly comfortable talking to girls now, even the really hot girls! It just takes practice.
Self confidence and a sense of humour goes a long way from what I've seen. You will have good qualities that women will find attractive.
But sitting on a forum and discussing it won't give you all the answers. The best way to fix this situation is to change yourself a little or do things to boost your social abilities and the way you talk to women.
1. Go to a gym or do free weights/cardio at home
2. Buy some new clothes which make you look cooler & well presented
3. Go out as much as possible and TRY to talk to girls, the more you practice the more you'll get better at it and be more confident
Even if you fail a few times, it doesn't matter, this game is all about trial and error, eventually you'll find your own styles and way of talking to women and you'll be confident enough to approach women and maybe get into a relationship!
Goodluck mate.
I'm going to a club tomorrow with some friends in Wolverhampton and try my luck with women. I'm surprisingly comfortable talking to girls now, even the really hot girls! It just takes practice.
Self confidence and a sense of humour goes a long way from what I've seen. You will have good qualities that women will find attractive.
But sitting on a forum and discussing it won't give you all the answers. The best way to fix this situation is to change yourself a little or do things to boost your social abilities and the way you talk to women.
1. Go to a gym or do free weights/cardio at home
2. Buy some new clothes which make you look cooler & well presented
3. Go out as much as possible and TRY to talk to girls, the more you practice the more you'll get better at it and be more confident
Even if you fail a few times, it doesn't matter, this game is all about trial and error, eventually you'll find your own styles and way of talking to women and you'll be confident enough to approach women and maybe get into a relationship!
Goodluck mate.
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Don't talk ********, I've been out with my brother many a time down there and it is wall to wall flange.
I especially like Sandsifter.
I don't know where Sandsifter is... but I live in a small, rural and sleepy retirement town, there is one school and everyone in this town went to it, they are very cliquey when out in the one club in the town.
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Don't see an escort or prostitute. What a ridiculous proposition.
Don't just throw away your first experiences: what's the point in that? If you've been waiting for so long there is NO reason to just throw it away on something meaningless such as some of the suggestions I've been reading through this thread.
Going out on the pull is not the be all and end all. I think it's pretty rank and wouldn't want the kind of girl who would put out in a taxi queue or after two cursory sentences of jibberish.
You'd be surprised what other people think of you. Don't go actively looking for it as you'll either look desperate or you'll make things harder on yourself as it can be disappointing if it's what you really want.
I'd say that it sounds like you need to just relax. Take things at your own pace. Whilst I say don't go out actively seeking it, there is no harm in putting yourself out there a bit. Such as going to places where people mix and mingle (don't have to be clubs really). Try just making small talk with people in everyday situations. Smile at people. Smile more in general. Build your social confidence slowly, at your own pace.
Get in touch with your friends again, even if it has been ages people are always glad to hear from their friends.
Most importantly, do not acquiese to whatever pressure that people put on you or that you feel is being put on you. You are YOU: an individual. Embrace that. Embrace your own ways and doing things at your own pace.
Good luck.
Don't just throw away your first experiences: what's the point in that? If you've been waiting for so long there is NO reason to just throw it away on something meaningless such as some of the suggestions I've been reading through this thread.
Going out on the pull is not the be all and end all. I think it's pretty rank and wouldn't want the kind of girl who would put out in a taxi queue or after two cursory sentences of jibberish.
You'd be surprised what other people think of you. Don't go actively looking for it as you'll either look desperate or you'll make things harder on yourself as it can be disappointing if it's what you really want.
I'd say that it sounds like you need to just relax. Take things at your own pace. Whilst I say don't go out actively seeking it, there is no harm in putting yourself out there a bit. Such as going to places where people mix and mingle (don't have to be clubs really). Try just making small talk with people in everyday situations. Smile at people. Smile more in general. Build your social confidence slowly, at your own pace.
Get in touch with your friends again, even if it has been ages people are always glad to hear from their friends.
Most importantly, do not acquiese to whatever pressure that people put on you or that you feel is being put on you. You are YOU: an individual. Embrace that. Embrace your own ways and doing things at your own pace.
Good luck.
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