you keep banging on about X number dead etc.. but the point made by the other poster was pretty fair re: most of these people not wanting their respective dictators back... pointing out that relatives of dead people might be angry is rather obvious, it isn't however a logical conclusion that they'd somehow want a dictator back or particularly relevant to the original point being made. Also I'm not sure why you're attributing this to bombs being dropped, plenty of casualties will have come from various infighting/sectarian violence.
It's pretty telling you suggest as fair an opinion on the feelings of the Iraqi people (as if that is one coherent group) and automatically correct, about the Saddam era, but a suggested possible counter view based on reason and likely evidence of the apparent state of the country and massive loss of life is, "Banging on about X number of dead". I guess on average your position of the relevance on X numbers of deaths is highly correlated to proximity to X?
On your second point, controversial it may be, a peer reviewed analysis of death as reported by Iraqi people themselves it undeniably is:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lancet_surveys_of_Iraq_War_casualties