Marriage

digipeep · 22 Mar 2009 at 03:50

Should I do it or not, the missus is sending out all the signals that me and her need to commit.

Let the forum decide.

V4NT0M · 22 Mar 2009 at 03:52

Yes if it's going to be a cheap wedding, no if it's going to be expensive

Azagoth · 22 Mar 2009 at 03:55

She's thinking about marriage? Now is the time to dump and run!

verbal · 22 Mar 2009 at 04:09

how long have you been together?

digipeep · 22 Mar 2009 at 04:24

4 1/2 years.

Viper² · 22 Mar 2009 at 04:31

Surely you aren't basing your opinion on people on a forum, even that not of your own. Either you want to be with her forever or you don't. It is your decision and yours only.

teulk · 22 Mar 2009 at 05:42

If you want to get married then get married and dont listen what anyone has to say. What i will say is tho that marrage does not equal commitment anymore than living with a long term partner. If you can afford to get married then go for it, if not then is it really worth the expense and the possability of going thousands of pounds into debt ? Lets face it getting married aint cheap.

Sankari · 22 Mar 2009 at 06:14

teulk said:
If you can afford to get married then go for it, if not then is it really worth the expense and the possability of going thousands of pounds into debt ? Lets face it getting married aint cheap.

Getting married is as cheap as you want it to be.

I don't understand why anyone would be stupid enough to get into debt for a wedding. It makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

My wedding cost a mere £2,500 and was largely paid for by my wife and myself - in cash. My in-laws contributed about £1,000.

Schizo · 22 Mar 2009 at 06:16

digipeep said:
Should I do it or not, the missus is sending out all the signals that me and her need to commit.

Let the forum decide.

omg !!!

i cant believe your asking a complete bunch of stranger's on how your life is to be planned.

you need to ask your mum more than these people.

Viper² · 22 Mar 2009 at 06:16

Agreed. You only pay what you can afford. No need paying out of your **** then spending time in debt being miserable afterwards.

silversurfer · 22 Mar 2009 at 06:19

Sorry to hear you might be leaving us

northun_munky · 22 Mar 2009 at 07:09

Depends if you love your potential wife! Could be long painful years of hell if you don't ... Or if you do. Can't remember which

Le_Petit_Lapin · 22 Mar 2009 at 07:11

digipeep said:
Should I do it or not, the missus is sending out all the signals that me and her need to commit.

Let the forum decide.

Shag her Dad instead to prove that you're more alpha.

GAC · 22 Mar 2009 at 07:19

if your having to ask an internet forum, id say your not ready.

bum · 22 Mar 2009 at 07:21

digipeep said:
Let the forum decide.

This phrase alone deserves a :rolleyes:

Think your missus would be better without you, tbh

Dolph · 22 Mar 2009 at 07:55

GAC said:
if your having to ask an internet forum, id say your not ready.

This.

Do it because you both want to, not because you feel you should.

knip · 22 Mar 2009 at 08:34

If you cant imagine life without her, and can imagine growing old with her then do it. Not because shes on at you. I wouldnt want anyone to marry me because I talked them into it, or thought that because we'd been together long enough, so we "should."

peige · 22 Mar 2009 at 08:40

Don't spend loads on it, do it if you must.

Marriage is a unnecessary complication to the natural demise of most relationships

Hunders · 22 Mar 2009 at 08:45

I've never seen the point in marriage, so I vote no.

helpimcrap · 22 Mar 2009 at 08:51

if you need to ask you're not ready.