Not really a control freak thing but ultimately it is my OS environment and I will say when the machine restarts, etc. not some dumb software that isn't even real life context aware... :S
I can see how some of it can be useful for mainstream users but MS needs to get back to enabling the user experience not pushing a usage model that is incompatible with more users than it is compatible.
There is a real risk that they are ironically going to end up pushing many users towards Apple who love them or hate them just do some of those aspects better and others towards Linux.
I think the truth of it is we're buying extremely complex products that can't be tailored to every single users likes/dislikes. The only way to run a company selling such a product is standardisation and limiting fragmentation. Whilst it is "your" OS you've just bought a licence to use it, it is actually Microsoft's OS to change, within reason, as they wish. Of course we're all free to buy/use any other product as we see fit and that is how I think it should work.
There seems to be have been a shift in recent times from user feedback to to lobbying by niche interests. This also applies to business especially in the US and it just skews everything. As in the case of W10 the silent majority seem to be happy enough or at least not that bothered they feel motivated to complain or switch away. That said you have every right to voice your opinions, I'm just not sure that the majority are as unhappy with the product.
Do you think there will be a decent rival for Windows in the near future? Compatibility seems to be their strength and relative ease of use. I'm sure there is room for a real Fisher Price OS for the non-techies out there and for something modular or real bare bones for those that need it. I'd be happy to try something else if it wasn't Apple (too restricted) or Linux (too much faffing around).