Soldato
It's not bad parenting at all.
It's parents that can see the bigger picture and the consequences of various courses of action.
Generally in life you get rewarded for working hard and achieving goals. Certainly in my case and perhaps this case the child is not motivated enough and has no concept of the consequences of lack of achievement...having been provided for all their life.
This is just a way of making a reward easy to perceive when in fact the real rewards will be reaped over the coming decades.
It's parents that can see the bigger picture and the consequences of various courses of action.
Generally in life you get rewarded for working hard and achieving goals. Certainly in my case and perhaps this case the child is not motivated enough and has no concept of the consequences of lack of achievement...having been provided for all their life.
This is just a way of making a reward easy to perceive when in fact the real rewards will be reaped over the coming decades.