I've used a few brakes now on various demo bikes and my own and I've come to the following conclusions:
XT's are powerful but far too on/off, there's no modulation.
Deore brakes (my own) have much better modulation but are lacking a bit of power, however sintered pads and a 200mm front disc would probably sort that.
Guide R's are decent, loads of modulation but not huge amounts of power.
Code R's - loads of power AND modulation!!
However, every set of SRAM brakes I've tried I haven't been able to get the lever bite point far enough out, even with the adjuster to the limit. It might just be that the pistons needed pushing out a bit but I prefer a bike point quite far out, my motorbike habits are too ingrained - the ability to have a feather touch on the brakes and not have them have 3" of play is a big deal.
I've yet to try Hope tech 3 E/V4's but I think they are going to be the best mix of power, modulation and adjustability. Just so happens they look brilliant too