Been with my girlfriend for over 6 months now. She has 2 kids to different people. One 7 and one 2 - both boys.
Father of 7 year old is perfectly fine with me. Father of 2 year old has a problem with her being with someone, although he was the one who cheated/walked out on her over a year ago...
He's constantly messaging her saying how he doesn't want me near his son, etc... She's ignored him on the sense that she wants her own life as well but now it's got to the point that he's stopping at hers (apparently he has no where else to have them) when it's his turn to have him. He even fetches his daughter who he's had with someone else.
He then buggers off to work in the day and leaves them both with her - in which then I cannot spend the day with her due to not wanting to cause any more hassle. It's got to the point now where it's taking the ****.
He's practically controlling her and not letting her live her life - and now because I said I wasn't comfortable with the situation - I'm the one in the bad books?
Am I in the wrong to think that it's unacceptable to be at hers when it's his weekend to have his son and daughter?
It should be the time for her to have a few days away from the kids and spend quality time with me and/or friends...
Father of 7 year old is perfectly fine with me. Father of 2 year old has a problem with her being with someone, although he was the one who cheated/walked out on her over a year ago...
He's constantly messaging her saying how he doesn't want me near his son, etc... She's ignored him on the sense that she wants her own life as well but now it's got to the point that he's stopping at hers (apparently he has no where else to have them) when it's his turn to have him. He even fetches his daughter who he's had with someone else.
He then buggers off to work in the day and leaves them both with her - in which then I cannot spend the day with her due to not wanting to cause any more hassle. It's got to the point now where it's taking the ****.
He's practically controlling her and not letting her live her life - and now because I said I wasn't comfortable with the situation - I'm the one in the bad books?
Am I in the wrong to think that it's unacceptable to be at hers when it's his weekend to have his son and daughter?
It should be the time for her to have a few days away from the kids and spend quality time with me and/or friends...
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