When my wife is suffering that much than she would rather be dead that alive due to the constant chronic pain is not urgent, what is? Especially when she is swigging morphine from the bottle in order to try to counter the pain, surely this is considered a fairly urgent case? We were not expecting a 1-2 week turnaround, but March to September and not even had the initital appointment for the specialist is a too long for any case... no?
Well using my own experience, life or death is urgent.
Our son was born with among other things PPHN.
I've never seen so many doctors and surgeons appear so quickly.
The first hospital we were at the doctor's looking after him didn't go home that night said they didn't have time to handover so just carried on.
Even then they could only just keep him alive but he was still getting worse they could see that he would die if they just carried on. So they had talks with people around the country and then around Europe.
He needed surgery a very rare specialised surgery we were told were off to Sweden it's the only place that has space. Few hours later we were told that his consultant pleaded with alder Hey to take him even though he didn't meet the criteria (premature and too small) they agreed.
Few minutes later the specialist NWTS team turned up closed the ward down and began transfering him.
Our heads were spinning all this in a matter of hours.
It carried on at that pace for 3 weeks. Alder hey staff were amazing the place was amazing, if our son needed something they didn't book anything they just went and told anyone else already there they would have to wait. He had ECMO there, which its self has a 50% chance of killing the patient, 2 nurses thus bedside 24/7 with no exceptions. The poor nurses looked destroyed at the level of constant effort rubbing that machine, constant checking the lines for clots that at any minute could dislodge and kill him, constantly altering the obscene amount of drugs. Well over 20 different IVs going all being altered every minute.
The consent form was so rushed out just had scribbled on it in pencil, reason for operation to save life, with a huge list of complications. Which he did have, he had a grade 4 bleed which is the worst possible he lost the right side of his brain.
Back to st Mary's we spent another 3 weeks there with MRIs every other day. Then transferred to our local hospital where we spent another few weeks.
Even when at home the nurses came every day for neoro checks.
So yes when people complain about the NHS because there in pain. I just have to think that's nothing really you don't know what pain really is, and hope nobody ever has to see what the NHS can really do when it's really urgent.