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My wife went back to work after being off for 15 months so she wasn't very happy. The 4 year old started primary school and it's like getting blood from a stone in terms of how he got on. "Good", "Yes", "Can't remember" are his token answers to all open ended questions.
Don't expect much more, my daughter 13 says the same and my son 11 who just started secondary school says the same it's either good or can't remember.
It doesn't improve, the only answers I get from my 7 year old about his day is "I can't remember", even if you ask him what he had for lunch
It doesn't improve, the only answers I get from my 7 year old about his day is "I can't remember", even if you ask him what he had for lunch
Yup, he wanted pudding so I said he can't have any unless he remembered what he had for his school lunch, he then begrudgingly told me. Such douche bags these kids.
Just picked my 5 year old daughter up from school and when I asked how her day was she answered "fine" and I asked what she learnt today to which she replied "lots"
My wifey has been on maternity since early 2017 and still saying she wants another year yet! Dosser
All this is disheartening. I'm currently at the "Park, Momma, woof." and "Garden, shoe shoe, bubble" stage when I ask what he did todayJust picked my 5 year old daughter up from school and when I asked how her day was she answered "fine" and I asked what she learnt today to which she replied "lots"
My wifey has been on maternity since early 2017 and still saying she wants another year yet! Dosser
All this is disheartening. I'm currently at the "Park, Momma, woof." and "Garden, shoe shoe, bubble" stage when I ask what he did today
Does get any better, I have 2 teenage sons and they don't seem to say much about anything, unless they want to be dropped off with their mates etc
Had a similar experience - went in for the scan to see what might need to be done with the foetus after miscarriage only to be told it was actually fine, she hadn't miscarried and be shown the heart beating. He started secondary school this week!
Little man was winding down ready to go to bed, wandering around upstairs while my wife and I are chatting. Walk into the bathroom to see him stood up and peeing into his potty. We've shown him on and off for months how to do it and without being vulgar, he's seen me pee a few times.
Cue a happy dance, high fives all round and hugs/kisses so he knows he did the right thing. Quite happy with the progress, he's about 2 years, 4 months.
Weird how these little moments make you buzz and feel so proud.
Cue a happy dance, high fives all round and hugs/kisses so he knows he did the right thing. Quite happy with the progress, he's about 2 years, 4 months.
Weird how these little moments make you buzz and feel so proud.
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Wow that's early. We just started a few weeks ago and my son turned 3 today. Neither of us shut the door for a wee, although I've not mentioned to him about standing up, I reckon his accuracy might be poor so I'm happy for him to sit
.Wow that's early. We just started a few weeks ago and my son turned 3 today. Neither of us shut the door for a wee, although I've not mentioned to him about standing up, I reckon his accuracy might be poor so I'm happy for him to sit
I wouldn't say he was accurate
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Just reinforces my thinking that he should sit, although its laminate around the toilet i'm not sure he'd reach it standing up even on a step. He does make us laugh though, sometimes when he just in y-fronts, half a cheek is on show and he starts running round telling us his bum is poking outI wouldn't say he was accurate
. They're so funny at this age.Just reinforces my thinking that he should sit, although its laminate around the toilet i'm not sure he'd reach it standing up even on a step. He does make us laugh though, sometimes when he just in y-fronts, half a cheek is on show and he starts running round telling us his bum is poking out
If we take our time with him around bed/bath time, he will sit down on the potty but if nothing happens quick, he's back up and running around. However as I mentioned, because he's seen me standing, he wants to copy daddy and stand.
This was the first time he's done it without any prompting, i'd say he probably got 70% of it in the potty.Totally opposite for us, they took George on at 8 months old and arranged a checkup for when he turned 1 year old.
Our ten month old has 5 teeth through and counting, I'd like to get him checked soonest. We've tried 5 practices and none of them are accepting new NHS patients. I'd understand if it was a capacity issue, but if you pay to go privately they'll take you.