apparently it could be a psu, johnnyguru has said this about it
"If you used the SuperFlower PSU in the video with the crystal connectors, that's part of your problem. Those "universal 9-pin connectors" have less conductors than most other modular PSUs because the same connector that's used for EPS12V, PCIe, etc. has to also support +5V and +3.3V for Molex and SATA and then there's an "LED pin" which, when grounded to a ground pin, turns on the interface's LED. A horribly bad design. This is why the wires would be so hot. I suggest checking the voltage at the PSU and then at the motherboard's EPS12V to see what the drop looks like under load. If the voltage is significantly lower than +12V, the board is going to have to pull more current than it normally would. I then suggest using that AX1500i you have on the shelf behind you and see if you end up with the same results since that modular cable for the EPS12V is four +12V pins and four grounds. -- jonny"
apparently he's informed der8auer about the issue so waiting to hear back, if so then much more current was being pulled through than necessary.
which could explain why other reviewers have gotten 4.7ghz from the 7900x on various motherboards without vrm temps being an issue.
which also coincides as to why the only other person he knows to have tested another board (strix) which has worse vrms than the ones he has, havnt had vrm throttling issues, since they're using a different psu.