KDE Neon has updates that want a reboot literally every day. Sure I can just update when I want to (same as windows), but it objectively is not any less faff than Windows, at least that only want a reboot every week or so.
You're not comparing Apples to Apples there though, you've chosen something which includes the "latest updates as soon as the're available" - picture entering the Windows Insider/Developer OS.
Meanwhile, my Debian install has an update once every now and then, and even that is mostly security/non Debian apps. This is what is good about Linux, is that there's so much choice. I would never rock something which prioritises cutting-edge or rolling releases these days.