I think those of us who've grow up through the 'running Doom in a tiny box to get the frame rate up on a 386' phase, and even before then when frame rates were not only obvious but countable (I'm looking at you, Space Invaders machine!), are often happy with a compromise. But one reason I allowed myself to splurge on this laptop this year (apart from the bargain basement pricing) was the itch I've had to experience high frame rate gaming. And I am most definitely converted to 100+fps gaming now. Even 60fps feels unsatisfactory now!
One good thing I'll say about ray tracing is that it's a sort of return to the days when hardware improvements were exciting. It's been a long time since that was true. Of course, first you have to be excited by ray tracing, and I think the problem is that a whole heap of artistic and technical creativity has gone into getting good old fashioned rendering looking plenty good enough to fool most of us most of the time.