Relathionship - again

Have to say it, either she's an idiot, inconsiderate, or wants to get tapped by this guy.

Have a word with ceiling cat and see if he can keep an eye on them and report back.
 
Rich_L said:
Have to say it, either she's an idiot, inconsiderate, or wants to get tapped by this guy.

Have a word with ceiling cat and see if he can keep an eye on them and report back.
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My ex did a similar thing to me, although he didn't even wait 4 months. When I met him, he was in an awful state after their break-up, and until we got together he was totally hung up on her and went on about how she was so horrible. Then we got together, and about a week later they were suddenly friends again and started spending a lot of time together.

I had no idea what to do, because it seemed so odd that he would suddenly change his mind about her and want to be around her when I suspected there were still feelings on both sides. I told him that I wasn't comfortable about it, and he ignored me and started to see her behind my back instead, which totally destroyed my trust in him and ultimately killed the relationship. I still have no idea if anything happened between them or not, because he had a long history of cheating before me and then he lied to me for 3 years.

After we'd been together for about 18 months, I finally met his ex and spent quite a bit of time with her (alone and with my ex), and because of that I was more comfortable about them being together. I was never completely at ease with it, because of the way it went to start with. I think if we'd been introduced when they started to be friends again, things would have been a lot different.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that your partner alone with an ex is never an easy thing to think about if they are kept totally separate from you. If they make an effort for you to know each other though, it's less scary because they're showing the ex that you are part of their life.
 
why should you feel the need to think of it anyway - if you feel uncomfortable about it - just end it. you cant force her to not see him, which she will state. and that will only make her do it behind your back.

just curb it all and you will be fine - I had the same problem a few years back - kicked her to the curb. no more problems but she did try get back with me but no. when the sausage and beans are on the table, and ceiling cat doesnt come back after an hour. something is going on.
 
go in her room, hide anything that could be seen as sexual, leave her granny pants and some ragged clothes, should stop some shannigins

and if thats not enough, pretend to be dying, ask her to look after you, if she still goes, well says it all really :p
 
Lol beans :D

Back on topic though lol he is in a hard place. He could confront his GF and she would just blow off steam with her ex and he'd comfort her and tell her what a bad man her BF is, etc, etc. Or he can ignore it and let it eat away at him!

Once you've let it get to the stage where they've been spending so much obvious time together its allll lost. Have a go at her if you want but she'll only go running to matey boy ex looking for comfort which he'll happily give her whilst turning her against you even more.

Best way to go about it is to suggest that all 3 of you go out for a meal together. Pretend it doesnt bother you at the moment that she spends so much time with him. If she wont let you all go out as friends for drinks then she either hasnt told him about you or she's guilty! In that case kick her to the curb!

Erm if she does allow you to go out as a "threesome" then who knows lol. My GF at the time wouldnt let me meet her ex who she was spending loads of time with and I should have noticed tbh back then!
 
we used to lol past the beans isle said it was a terrible place to bring a child.

also we found "rubbing the bean" intensly funny..... looking back now I cant see why.

clam chowder is just wrong.
 
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