Relathionship - again

Heh don't be too negative, might all be innocent..:p

You could offer to pick her up later in the evening, be interesting to see the reaction....

Alternatively, get mates together, go out on the lash and have an awesome time, so if she breaks up with you, you'll already have got some practice in so can get right to it :p
 
Don't read to much into it unless you truly feel threatened by it.
When i was with my ex she started hanging out with some kid when he came back from uni who still has the hots for after 4 years (its quite freaky, almost psyco like) and i even dropped her off there once as she spent the evening with him instead of me, but i knew nothing would happen between them because he was noob :D
 
Tell her that blokes don't invite ex's over for dinner unless they want something other than friendship, make it so that you dont trust him and are worried he might grope her or something. Whatever you do don't make it seem like you don't trust her.
If after all this you still think she might still possibly be innocent in all this - do the above. VERY good advice. I'd fall for it!
 
Do not try to understand a woman!

If you need clarification of what's going on then asking her will confuse you even more.
Go find out for yourself and see it with your own two eyes, if they are having it away with each other, you'll soon know for sure.

TELL HER, she's not seeing the ex again, do not ask! If she can't or wont show you that much respect, show her the front door, swiftly followed by her belongings.
 
Talk to her mate, explain why you're concerned and see what she says. If she plays the "you don't trust me" card, ask her how she'd feel if you went for dinner with an ex.
 
start looking for somebody else to shag, immediately, borrow as much cash as you possibly can from her, cancel nothing in favor of spending time with her, continue to shag her if she is still up for it, treat her like a sex partner and nothing more, its better than your hand if you cant get it anywhere else! then you may come out with some self esteem left

4 months, absolutely no time at all, i presume you dont live together already, only desperate people move in that quick and end up regretting it. Basically in that short period of not living together you should have absolutely no time whatsoever for anybody outside the relationship, mates understand this, and be having hot sex at every opportunity. Shes dropping your time in favor of another mans, think hard, you know why! Small loss, no love involved, the next hole will make you forget all about hers, and remember, no girl is good enough

dont get played
 
Need an advice. I'm dating this girl 4 months now. We have a very good, strong and fun relationship. What's happening now is this: recently she refreshed a communication with her ex. It started with some hillwalking, coffee's etc. Now she said that shes going to his place for a dinner.

I feel slightly uneasy about it. I do trust her but it just feels weird. Am I overacting? Personally I don't see anything wrong with having a friendship with ex but late time dinner sounds too intimate for my taste.

Am I wrong being slightly upset?
Maybe she is put off by your lisp.
 
start looking for somebody else to shag, immediately, borrow as much cash as you possibly can from her, cancel nothing in favor of spending time with her, continue to shag her if she is still up for it, treat her like a sex partner and nothing more, its better than your hand if you cant get it anywhere else! then you may come out with some self esteem left

4 months, absolutely no time at all, i presume you dont live together already, only desperate people move in that quick and end up regretting it. Basically in that short period of not living together you should have absolutely no time whatsoever for anybody outside the relationship, mates understand this, and be having hot sex at every opportunity. Shes dropping your time in favor of another mans, think hard, you know why! Small loss, no love involved, the next hole will make you forget all about hers, and remember, no girl is good enough

dont get played

"Watch out mate, ******* plods round the corner"
:p
 
but i knew nothing would happen between them because he was noob :D

'honesty dreadi, nothing happened, hes a noob, i love you, hes to much of a noob at sex for me to ever sleep with him, not that id know how much of a noob he was'

Keep tellin urself that ;)
 
'honesty dreadi, nothing happened, hes a noob, i love you, hes to much of a noob at sex for me to ever sleep with him, not that id know how much of a noob he was'

Keep tellin urself that ;)

haha! Nah, i knew there was nothing to be worried about, apparently he recently showed her picture to a mate stating she was his 'future girlfriend' (i still talk to her now and then) Kids an emo fruitcake:D
 
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