Relathionship - again

Without doubt he will be absolutely piledrivin' the kidneys off her before the main course is done. He has been doing this since the very first "hill walk" and now she has got so comfy with cheating she is happy enough to tell you she is going round there (the added bonus for her is if she is ever seen anywhere by a friend etc she can claim she has nothing to hide as you know they have time together)
 
Ask her and if you trust her then base your decision on this.

If you don't trust her you shouldn't be with her regardless of what she says.

These things work themselves out so good luck, it's not always as bad as you think.
 
Do not try to understand a woman!
Too true

TELL HER, she's not seeing the ex again, do not ask! If she can't or wont show you that much respect, show her the front door, swiftly followed by her belongings.

But that's not how I'd ever deal with it. Laying down the law like that could just push her to it when she wasn't before
 
1. give her some sausage (question why its going in so easy!)
2. once you've let off the steam, light a fag (porn star style)
3. throw her belongings out the window (better in 1 foul swoop)
8. as she goes out to collect them, shut door (while playing tom jones - whats new pussycat)
9. lock
13. wave through window (in gay fashion)

any questions are met with "skit!... skit pussycat!"
 
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hillwalking? Hahahahahaha god don't be so stupid.

I think what is meant is, he has his hiking boots on for extra grip in the mount position. Nothing worse than losing your footing than when you hit your stride.
 
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people = scum theory being helped along by all the bad posts aswell tbh, im fairly sure some of these should be classed as trolling.

jus voice your concerns to her and tell her u duno if u can stomach it
 
people = scum theory being helped along by all the bad posts aswell tbh, im fairly sure some of these should be classed as trolling.

jus voice your concerns to her and tell her u duno if u can stomach it

It's only trolling if it's not funny :p
 
=/ some of it is going a bit to far really, this is someones feelings whos pretty low atm and needed some support, cant be good if hes turned to a forum like this with all the general thoughtless comments being thrown around. I think theres been enough 'jokes' now :)
 
=/ some of it is going a bit to far really, this is someones feelings whos pretty low atm and needed some support, cant be good if hes turned to a forum like this with all the general thoughtless comments being thrown around. I think theres been enough 'jokes' now :)


Dont think hes feeling that low. Otherwise he wouldnt post this on a roughly anonymous public forum esp OCUK. If he's relying on an internet forum for support over and above that of Real people then his situation really is desperate indeed. I think he's just generally looking for opinions not "support" as such.
 
helped along by all the bad posts aswell tbh, im fairly sure some of these should be classed as trolling.

=/ some of it is going a bit to far really, this is someones feelings whos pretty low atm and needed some support, cant be good if hes turned to a forum like this with all the general thoughtless comments being thrown around. I think theres been enough 'jokes' now :)

political correctness much?

we obviously acknowledge his feelings and if we didnt make jokes he'd prob lose interest himself. "thanks guys you've brightened up my day" in all fairness not everyone is so dry humoured in these situations. when I found out I got cheated on as the girl told me to my face I said thats ok, me and my female friend (who had been standing next to me for the conversation) admitted to a 3 month affair. not that it was true but thats not the point - point being is that people pro/re-act differently and posting private matters on a public forums is asking for trouble if they are so caught up in their own feelings - read the faq it even says not to expect good advice from us - but we do try.

/rant off.
 
=/ some of it is going a bit to far really, this is someones feelings whos pretty low atm and needed some support, cant be good if hes turned to a forum like this with all the general thoughtless comments being thrown around. I think theres been enough 'jokes' now :)

Not jokes, they are real!
We speak from experience.. :(
 
=/ some of it is going a bit to far really, this is someones feelings whos pretty low atm and needed some support, cant be good if hes turned to a forum like this with all the general thoughtless comments being thrown around. I think theres been enough 'jokes' now :)

Did you read his last post? :confused:
 
lol, its hardly PC of me to say what i said. Yea i saw it cheered him up, some of it was funny ill agree, always needs the bit of banter to lighten things up :) but sometimes some people can take it to far, its a fairly sensitive subject isnt it.

Chris, I wouldnt know, no-one cheats on this love machine ;)
 
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