Relational issues...
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LUL, you sound like her father or something.
If she does it, prepare for a depressing week afterwards, it brings a whole new meaning to monday blues.
Hah that is awesome.
Although I never really get the come down, think it depends on the person.
Honestly, if you're not having some too, then stay away. You'll hate it and she will too.
Only you can decide if it ultimately kills the relationship, it depends on how strong the relationship is. I think your first post was talking about being in a rut etc? If so, it may just be the beginning of the end.
Only you can decide if it ultimately kills the relationship, it depends on how strong the relationship is. I think your first post was talking about being in a rut etc? If so, it may just be the beginning of the end.
You seriously thinking about breaking if off because you have some irrational fear of drugs. Shes not an overweight alcoholic is she.
Let her do it and dont be there. You dont have to do everything together and she will leave you if you proceed with your plan of being a complete tool about this all.
Let her do it and dont be there. You dont have to do everything together and she will leave you if you proceed with your plan of being a complete tool about this all.
Christ almighty. Do yourself a favor chap and just forget you ever started this thread.
There's no point in asking for opinions on relationships here. The heady mix of half dead marriage burnouts and 15yo facebook stalkers will offer you very little in the way of sage advice.. Especially if you introduce recreational drug use into the mix.
There's no point in asking for opinions on relationships here. The heady mix of half dead marriage burnouts and 15yo facebook stalkers will offer you very little in the way of sage advice.. Especially if you introduce recreational drug use into the mix.
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Let her be herself. Being controlling is not attractive.
It can still be cut with other stuff, many other chemicals can come in crystalline form. That said, 'pure' mdma crystals are less likely to be cut with filler than random pills would.
A fair bit of well executed political spin evident by some posters, but hey ho, whatever the government says is bad for us MUST be bad for us.
As someone who used a variety of substances and frequently for a decade, and knows dozens of others who have done the same, I have only heard of 2 instances of someone's life going to crap, and that was due to their own psychological issues, not unlike an alcoholic. Is alcohol also evil then?
My gf hasn't touched a thing and never would. She doesn't have a problem with my past, as she knows me, sees that it hasn't had a negative effect on me as a person or my life. I dabble maybe twice a year now, and she is fine with that, she knows I do things safely and properly, in fact I put my life less at risk than she does when she rides her horse. I am less at risk of harm physically than she is when she drives her car.
If she wants to try it, let her, it's probably the best one for her to do so with, due to non-existent physical addictiveness. Does she have an addictive personality? That would be more of a risk than the drug itself.
MDMA has a much better diminishing returns affect compared to other drugs, which can be cained ad infinitum. It takes time to top our your serotonin levels, and if she doesn't like hangover, then she will hate comedowns, which is usually what makes most regular users eventually stop later on in life.
Well if you read through the thread I have gotten plenty of good advice from some level-headed users here. I'm not going to act on every piece of advice here, it just lets me easily enter another point of view.
EDIT: Just updated the first post to prevent the same answers coming back over and over
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Does that include alcohol?
Alcohol isn't like cocaine or ecstasy, so don't be stupid.
I think you will find on most weekends alcohol directly causes more problems than recreational drugs.
Why? Because it isn't a pill or powder?
Well cocaine is nothing like ecstasy (other than both being illegal).
Why is it socially acceptable to get hammered on a night out, throw up in a gutter, wake up with a stinking hangover and just have people point and go "lolfail!"?
I would rather a person have a single night in a month with a bit of MDMA than go out on the **** 3 nights a week. It's cheaper too.
People die from alcohol poisoning and doing various activities whilst drunk (driving, sleeping in bins, climbing up scaffolding), yet there is no outcry to ban this dangerous drug.
Stupid social conditioning. But then racist and homophobic attitudes have changed over time, so maybe people will realise what other people get up to that doesn't affect them is completely moot in the future.
Yeah, nothing to do with the fact that many many many more people drink alcohol than take Class A drugs....
I wonder what would happen if every off licence, supermarket and bar sold heroin, cocaine and MDMA instead?
I'm willing to bet we wouldn't have enough space to put the bodies.
Overdosing on alcohol = generally being sick, getting a taxi home and feeling horrendous in the morning.
Overdosing on cocaine = heart/respiratory problems, getting an ambulance to the hospital, not waking up.
And on the flipside, having a druggy girlfriend IS attractive?