Relationship disaster - help

Elixir said:
Love is not just words. Good that you lied to each other about being in love within 24 hours though.
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Very true..... Love isn't just words.

I think that early on in a relationship it's more Lust than Love.

As for it coming from a girl who is clearly as mad as a fruit bat, I'd be running for the hills and sleeping with one eye open.
 
Elixir said:
You were lying because at that point I seriously doubt you loved each other.
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You can't make that assumption, you don't know either of us, nor the chemistry we have, ever heard of love at first sight? I suppose it depends if you believe in it or not, but 8 years and counting is kind of in my favour

izzop said:
Very true..... Love isn't just words.

I think that early on in a relationship it's more Lust than Love.
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again, Love at first sight
 
Jay794 said:
You can't make that assumption, you don't know either of us, nor the chemistry we have, ever heard of love at first sight? I suppose it depends if you believe in it or not, but 8 years and counting is kind of in my favour



again, Love at first sight
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Very true and a good point, but I still think it's more Lust than Love that early on. Not that it can't develop into Love.
 
isn't lust just the want/need for sex?

When I first saw my girlfriend, ****ing her wasn't on my mind (she has massive boobs was lol)
 
Stay with it for a little while longer, she may give you the best dry ride you've ever got, remember though don't wear jeans while dry riding, trackie bottoms is what it's all about.

Feliz Netal!
 
IrishChr1s said:
Stay with it for a little while longer, she may give you the best dry ride you've ever got, remember though don't wear jeans while dry riding, trackie bottoms is what it's all about.

Feliz Netal!
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Laughed far to much at that. Been there done that. Sucks waiting for marriage, but it makes the mind surprisingly inventive. :D
 
have you had any other experience with loopy women in the past?
It could be you!
My last few relationship have been with loopy women, I think its just me! ha
 
ringo747 said:
Neither a troll nor very silly. All relationships don't involve sex before marriage. Your comments don't make any sense when you read what was originally written. OP was just another typical OCUK GD sweeping generalisation.
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I've read what was originally written. I also have some understanding of Christianity. Neither appears to be true for you.

This is what stewy (who isn't the OP, so you didn't even get that right) actually wrote:

If she's religious she's probably not had many (if any) boyfriends before
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If you've read that as meaning that all relationships involve sex before marriage, you've greviously misread it.

The ideal in Christianity is one relationship only, one per life. It certainly frowns upon having many boyfriends. stewy's comment is both reasonable and accurate. Your replies are neither. Since they're irrelevant to what stewy actually wrote, it's debateable whether they are replies at all.

I stand by silliness (if you mean it) or trolling (if you don't).
 
MoJoe said:
Why do guys want to go out with *****? I like girls who have some self respect and wont shag a different guy every night.
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You might not be aware that there's a lot of ground between "won't have sex with anyone without the explicit approval of their church" and "shags a different guy every night".

I don't know how you could not be aware of that, but those are the only two options you claim exist and I'm charitably assuming that you're being serious.

Also, what's wrong with *****? They're just women who have rejected traditional gendered restrictions. I think that's a good thing. It's not a lack of self respect. It's egalitarianism and honesty.
 
Surfer said:
Ohh yeah all this has happened in the space of 1 ½ - 2 weeks.
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Sylv said:
Am I the only one thinking that the OP is taking advantage when he shouldn't be?
The term 'love' is thrown around a lot these days without much meaning, is easily confused with physical attraction and is just re-enforced with the fact that your living together.
You've told her your leaving, your both clearly operating on two different wave lengths.
Be level headed and stop leading/allowing this girl to get physical. The more that happens, the more she'll get all Glenn Close on you.
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We had a long talk later that night. I think you are right about the love confusion thing. From the talk we had i think the way she used love means a strong attraction to someone whilst i just say i like her a lot. She says she knows other guys and likes them so she thinks when i say like then i like other women etc etc. So no i dont think she means "LOVE" (TM)

We are having another talk about it on 27th. She said she feels guilty about having sex (she has had sex before btw)

We are both having to move out of the flat anyway. So we will have separate places (unless she suggests moving into a place together?! :eek: - we shall see how things go from there :)


have you had any other experience with loopy women in the past?
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Haha....ohhh yes thats why i'm not entirely running for the hills yet....im more desentized to the crazy...


btw does it actually say in the bible "thou shalt not have sex before thou art wedded" ???? I've been saying that it should be up to the people in the relationship not an external factor like religion. if those in the relationship are comfortable with it then its no big deal. At one point she was using words like when "he deserves it" and she "will give it up"....which kinda shows me her attitude to sex i guess? To me she is making a big deal out of it when she shouldnt be....
 
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