I haven't read anything about the 3090 cards yet...
I've got a Palit GamePro non-OC 3090. Seems Palit did not use the 6xPOSCAPs for their 3090s (rather the 4/2 hybrid arrangement). No crashes at all during gaming so far at stock speeds (I've not tried an overclock). The boost regularly takes it to around 2010MHz during gameplay and I've seen a couple of spikes as high as 2030MHz (Serious Sam 4 in 4k/ultra with an uncapped framerate), but so far rock-solid stable in game.
Still having the weird issue where the graphics driver sometimes crashes and restarts while playing videos in MPC/MPV. Seems to happen if I've jumped around the video a bit, or opened a few videos in rapid succession. Left it to play a few hours of video this morning with no interference while I did other stuff and that was fine.