Soldato
Yeah, cats really hate the cone of shame I really hope I don't have to use it.
When we had Tiki spayed, we got her a little set of "pyjamas", which didn't seem to bother her too much after the first few minutes of getting used to it; far more comfortable than the cone, and still stopped her pulling at the stitches.
We also picked up a soft(ish) "fabric" cone for Ember after she had her recent operation, and she seemed a lot happier in it - we did keep it off her as much as possible during the day, but had to put it back on at night when we weren't watching.