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Gilly said:
How so ? .. If too OT or medical please mail me
So apparently i'm going to be a dad..
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How so ? .. If too OT or medical please mail me
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At work at the mo Paula , drop me a mail and I'll try and pick it up ( don't have your mail addy to hand - mine is in my sig )
( don't have your mail addy to hand - mine is in my sig )Yeah it's Depo she's on which is why I was a little shocked to say the least. We'd always been very careful and she's ALWAYS claimed she didn't want another child (she has kids already). I said I would like them buy only once we were living together and everything was stable, which never happened in all fairness but she was always against it.
Girlfriend thinks it's a ploy to win me back, it'd be a pretty awful trick if it was and I'd be a little shocked if my exGF stooped so low. Current GF very well informed we talk about absolutely everything, no secrets, everything shared
I must admit I didn't even consider the effects Depo would have on any child if it were born, will have to read up on that!
Girlfriend thinks it's a ploy to win me back, it'd be a pretty awful trick if it was and I'd be a little shocked if my exGF stooped so low. Current GF very well informed we talk about absolutely everything, no secrets, everything shared
I must admit I didn't even consider the effects Depo would have on any child if it were born, will have to read up on that!
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Its a huge step in your life if you decide to keep it... Good luck.
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Just make sure your totally honest with your new G/f!
If she finds out about all this and youve kept it from her you will probably lose her. Be open, explain that you think your ex is making it up but you cant be 100% certain yet.
I would suggest that you ask the Ex to go to the doctors with you so that you can speak to a doctor about it! If she says no, shes lying!
If she finds out about all this and youve kept it from her you will probably lose her. Be open, explain that you think your ex is making it up but you cant be 100% certain yet.
I would suggest that you ask the Ex to go to the doctors with you so that you can speak to a doctor about it! If she says no, shes lying!
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Yeah same here. The other half cant take the pill as it makes her very very ill, and she's tried loads of different brands etc. We were thinking of her getting the injection, but this is slightly worrying!Piggymon said:How so ? .. If too OT or medical please mail me
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Mail sentPiggymon said:How so ? .. If too OT or medical please mail me
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Well I was on the Depo injection for about 3/4 years with no problems at all so I then went a step further and had the implanon implant which has been fine for the first 18 months or so but has now gone haywire :/
I want the implant out and go back on the injections but now I'm a little worried
I want the implant out and go back on the injections but now I'm a little worried
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Gilly said:Mail sent
Thanks Mat
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Kami said:
Nice one
I think for the sake of your current girlfriend and to set a precedent I would tell your ex you'll meet her under one situation and one situation only. The hospital, to get everything confirmed. There's no point discussing the ifs, buts and maybes with her until you know, and there's no point stressing your GF out by doing so.
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Gilly said:
I tried it cos it seemed much more convenient than other methods (i'm not the most organised person in the world and always forget to take pills etc
)I tried depo for around 6 months (2 injections) and had an awful time with it, horrible headaches and 'ladyproblems' and it wasn't until 5/6 months after I stopped taking it that things started to get better. Best mate is on it tho with no probs. Weird how it works out.
Not too sure how to go about this tbh, however, I am Kami's current girlfriend!!
In a very kindda obscure way, a tiny part of me hopes she is pregnant, because to even contemplate how twisted she would have to be to pull a stunt like this doesn't bear thinking about!!
I don't think she is tbh, had it come out of the blue, then maybe, but since they split up she has been texting, phoning, asking to go round, accusing him off everything under the sun then saying she doesn't mean it, telling him she wants nothing to do with him, then saying she is sorry.
I think he has been amazing how he has handled her but there is a line to be drawn and she needs to accept they are over, hard as that may be. He was quite willing to try and stay friends, but as is often the case when people do split up, I can't see it happening. IF this is some sick ploy then I don't see how they could ever remain friends.
Only time will tell, but babe, you are fantastic and yes it is difficult for us at the moment, but we will get there, we are too good together to let anything get in the way!! Whatever way it swings, I aint going anywhere you're not! x
In a very kindda obscure way, a tiny part of me hopes she is pregnant, because to even contemplate how twisted she would have to be to pull a stunt like this doesn't bear thinking about!!
I don't think she is tbh, had it come out of the blue, then maybe, but since they split up she has been texting, phoning, asking to go round, accusing him off everything under the sun then saying she doesn't mean it, telling him she wants nothing to do with him, then saying she is sorry.
I think he has been amazing how he has handled her but there is a line to be drawn and she needs to accept they are over, hard as that may be. He was quite willing to try and stay friends, but as is often the case when people do split up, I can't see it happening. IF this is some sick ploy then I don't see how they could ever remain friends.
Only time will tell, but babe, you are fantastic and yes it is difficult for us at the moment, but we will get there, we are too good together to let anything get in the way!! Whatever way it swings, I aint going anywhere you're not! x
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Dude isnt this a standard trick used by mental ex-gfs to stir trouble if you move on
it either
a) forces you to come back, and then she either confesses it was BS or fakes a miscarrige if she somehow actually managed to fool the guy
b) when you dont come back, she uses it to try and convince her/your mates your a complete ******* for walking away on a pregnancy and try and get them to gang up on you
I've seen it happen when the woman has been sterilised and in relationship for years then 2 weeks after the guy starts seeing another woman, a miracle happens and she is suddenly pregnant
Stick to your guns and dont take any of her crap, if she provides some kind of proof that shes pregnant then look at the situation again but honestly i think this is 100% manipulation, try telling her that by trying this manipulation BS shes destroyed any respect you ever had for her and theres no way you could go back to her after it.
i dont mean to be harsh, but women are experts in manipulation and mind games. most of them have been getting their own way their whole lives, my appologies to those ladies who might be geniune exceptions to this of course
it either
a) forces you to come back, and then she either confesses it was BS or fakes a miscarrige if she somehow actually managed to fool the guy
b) when you dont come back, she uses it to try and convince her/your mates your a complete ******* for walking away on a pregnancy and try and get them to gang up on you
I've seen it happen when the woman has been sterilised and in relationship for years then 2 weeks after the guy starts seeing another woman, a miracle happens and she is suddenly pregnant
Stick to your guns and dont take any of her crap, if she provides some kind of proof that shes pregnant then look at the situation again but honestly i think this is 100% manipulation, try telling her that by trying this manipulation BS shes destroyed any respect you ever had for her and theres no way you could go back to her after it.
i dont mean to be harsh, but women are experts in manipulation and mind games. most of them have been getting their own way their whole lives, my appologies to those ladies who might be geniune exceptions to this of course
