So I've been offered no strings...

PiKe said:
She was the one who suggested weekly meetings, she was pretty distraught when I said I didn't think seeing each other was a good idea. She categorically states love has nothing to do with this 'offer'.
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*** warning *** Can you not see where this is going? ***warning***
 
I think 'no strings' sex is an incredibly rare thing. To some extent, it probably will change your behaviour, whether that is towards other girls, your friends, or simply sex in general.

Your behaviour and personality is dynamic with inputs and outputs. Whilst possible, I am extremely doubtful that most individuals could have an input of 'no strings' sex and no other changes to their output. It isn't as if you have just been given free membership to a porn website - you can't just close a browser and expect everything to go away.

You have been warned.
 
Nitefly said:
I think 'no strings' sex is an incredibly rare thing. To some extent, it probably will change your behaviour, whether that is towards other girls, your friends, or simply sex in general.

Your behaviour and personality is dynamic with inputs and outputs. Whilst possible, I am extremely doubtful that most individuals could have an input of 'no strings' sex and no other changes to their output. It isn't as if you have just been given free membership to a porn website - you can't just close a browser and expect everything to go away.

You have been warned.
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psychologist much?
 
Nitefly said:
I think 'no strings' sex is an incredibly rare thing. To some extent, it probably will change your behaviour, whether that is towards other girls, your friends, or simply sex in general.

Your behaviour and personality is dynamic with inputs and outputs. Whilst possible, I am extremely doubtful that most individuals could have an input of 'no strings' sex and no other changes to their output. It isn't as if you have just been given free membership to a porn website - you can't just close a browser and expect everything to go away.

You have been warned.
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Yawn.

Go have sex, have fun. There's nothing wrong with it. Until you're in a long term loving relationship there's absolutely nothing wrong or bad or any need to psycho analyse pure unbridled passionate and exciting sex!

If you want to be detatched you can be, if you get attached then more fool you - sex sooo doesn't have to be an emotional connection, doesn't stop it being passionate and exciting and fun,.
 
The Mad Rapper said:
I can, she clearly likes him more than he likes her, but that said, they are both consenting adults so if he agrees then I don't see the issue.

He needs to understand however that there is a good likelihood that she will in fact try to boil his bunny! :)
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She is clearly trying to get him back. They will have sex, she will get hurt and so may he.

Like I said as long as he aware of the probably outcomes and can accept them then go for it. Life is not black and white like the OCUK Forums make it out sometimes.
 
Just smash, plow and jackhammer away !!!!!

If it gets weird then I'm sure you will be able to handle it. It's all life expeience after all and you're getting laid as well.

/win
/profit
/cornflakes
 
Freefaller said:
Yawn.

Go have sex, have fun. There's nothing wrong with it. Until you're in a long term loving relationship there's absolutely nothing wrong or bad or any need to psycho analyse pure unbridled passionate and exciting sex!

If you want to be detatched you can be, if you get attached then more fool you - sex sooo doesn't have to be an emotional connection, doesn't stop it being passionate and exciting and fun,.
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I yawn back at you, sir!

Of course there is nothing wrong with strings attached sex - if there was, then one night stands would be a bad thing, which they aren't. I was just commenting that I think for most people the idea of 'strings free' sex with an ex-girlfriend is probably oxymoronic. So, before jumping in, I would reflect on how true the 'strings free' tag line is likely to be. If all lights are set to green, then by all means go ahead, but I would be cautious regarding the arrangement.
 
The Mad Rapper said:
Ssssh...I read 'Now' on the train home sometimes. Do I need a sex change? :)
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Yes. Quick.

Nitefly said:
I yawn back at you, sir!

Of course there is nothing wrong with strings attached sex - if there was, then one night stands would be a bad thing, which they aren't. I was just commenting that I think for most people the idea of 'strings free' sex with an ex-girlfriend is probably oxymoronic. So, before jumping in, I would reflect on how true the 'strings free' tag line is likely to be. If all lights are set to green, then by all means go ahead, but I would be cautious regarding the arrangement.
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Fair comment, but I have to say that I'd think about it for oooh, 0.00034s and then start getting undressed :p
 
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