So I've been offered no strings...

Bubo · 14 Oct 2009 at 09:42

PiKe said:
Not shelves no, she did mention cobwebs though, she's scared of spiders.

Christ, it *has* been a long while. No wonder she wants top start up again. Sounds like some lubricant gel might be in order too.

peterattheboro · 14 Oct 2009 at 09:42

I can't be the first to say TTIUWOP and it's upto the bottom of page 5?? :eek:

VeNT · 14 Oct 2009 at 09:52

no such thing as no strings.
there are always the ties that bind us and one or both of you WILL end up getting hurt.

Ciphon · 14 Oct 2009 at 10:16

peterattheboro said:
I can't be the first to say TTIUWOP and it's upto the bottom of page 5??

Others have said it... but nobody put it into an acronym

Skyrunner · 14 Oct 2009 at 10:22

Surely if you're having doubts at all it's not a good idea?

GordyR · 14 Oct 2009 at 11:21

Christ almighty....

What in the world is happening to men.

I agree no-strings with an ex is never truly no-strings and you would be better off finding a truly no-strings partner that you have no history with.

But still.... Do you really need to ask if its okay to have sex with someone? Just do it.

mollymoo · 14 Oct 2009 at 11:22

GordyR said:
Christ almighty....

Do you really need to ask if its okay to have sex with someone? Just do it.

Hmmmm well yeah you do really unless you use rohypnol

Talbs13 · 14 Oct 2009 at 11:30

SMASH IT AND SELL IT

Chu-Ching.

PiKe · 14 Oct 2009 at 11:58

skolem said:
So...

- You ended what sounds like a fairly serious relationship
- You still see her every week 1 on 1
- It has only been a month since it 'ended'

To me it sounds like you have broken up with her, not given her room to get over you, and now possibly will make things even harder for her by continuing to sleep with her.

Unless you can categorically say without doubt that she isn't still in love with you, and it is purely a physical thing, then you really need to start taking her well-being into account and give her some space and time to get over the relationship.

I'm obviously outside the situation, and all of the above is IMHO, but just think about what you're doing.

She was the one who suggested weekly meetings, she was pretty distraught when I said I didn't think seeing each other was a good idea. She categorically states love has nothing to do with this 'offer'.

MowyTone · 14 Oct 2009 at 12:05

LordSplodge said:
.....unload your Wurzles all over her.

Haha epic, will have to remember that one

Bubo · 14 Oct 2009 at 12:16

PiKe said:
She was the one who suggested weekly meetings, she was pretty distraught when I said I didn't think seeing each other was a good idea. She categorically states love has nothing to do with this 'offer'.

Jesus Christ, this one sentence says it all. It is obvious what is going on.

MowyTone · 14 Oct 2009 at 12:19

Bubo said:
Jesus Christ, this one sentence says it all. It is obvious what is going on.

+1

Queue starwars pic......... its a trap

I suggest going to a new bar with a few friends showing your 'little friends' a new pond to swim in

Vonhelmet · 14 Oct 2009 at 12:25

You split up with her, but she wanted to keep meeting up with you. Now she wants you to start sleeping together again.

Which part of your mind honestly thinks there are no strings here? Are you mental?

mac1st3 · 14 Oct 2009 at 12:34

PiKe said:
She was the one who suggested weekly meetings, she was pretty distraught when I said I didn't think seeing each other was a good idea. She categorically states love has nothing to do with this 'offer'.

Ahahahaha...now I see it, one of my exes done this to me, not a good idea, cause then when you next mention seeing other people, sh'ell go bunny boiler on you, only way to have your cake and eat it is to leave straight after sex, no cuddling, no pillow talk, just hump and dump.

the other option is give it more time, let her get over it first, complaining that neither of you have gotten any in a month, after breaking up a month ago, that's nothing! i'd be more worried if either of you had, cause then it'd show there was no regard for your relationship

D5T · 14 Oct 2009 at 13:14

In the words of a great, great man "It's a trap!"

PhillyDee · 14 Oct 2009 at 13:17

D5T said:
In the words of a great, great man "It's a trap!"

I have to agree.

But so what!

Casdawer · 14 Oct 2009 at 13:19

In all seriousness... smash it.

MattTheTall77 · 14 Oct 2009 at 13:20

aye could be a trap. A friend carried on having sex with her bf saying telling him it was just sex, but really she wanted him back and still loved him and did get him back. Dangerous line to cross over. Honest mode on, jealous though lol