So I've been offered no strings...

[LordSplodge]

hey guys look at me i'm having sexual intercourse IRL, with a woman and everything

I did that once. It was overrated. The Internet is better.

 

[E61 Grouphead]

Smash her Ginsters

 

[Pish]

smash it with no feelings, treat em mean keeps them keen, so dont be mean either

You have to be a real dog to get away with it, but its worth it

 

[Missing.String]

Strings don't exist. I'm highly qualified to comment on this.

 

[^TANK^]

From my ex gf, we still see each other once a week to see a film but purely on a friend basis, today she has suggested that maybe we should become 'buddies', neither of us are seeing anyone or getting any, and we know we're 'clean'.

I'm thinking it's not exactly wise but lets hear your opinions, maybe you've been in a similar situation?

Please try to refrain from any pastries.

Smash each others pasty.

 

[ntg]

Enjoy it while it lasts. If it's not you it's gonna be something else. You are young and got no other attachments so just do it. Either way you can't be in a relationship only for sex or be friends with someone you have sex with. You can either reject her and she will go away completely, or exploit the situation and enjoy it while it lasts. There is nothing wrong in the whole deal. You are thinking too much for your own good!

 

[SkodaMart]

In this sort of situation one partner usually can take the sexual relationship for what it is and the other partner wants more, It will end in tears! However It should be fun upto that point, like any affair.

 

[timaloy]

rats and drain pipes come to mind-you are wasting time askin us

 

[WARHURYEAH]

Do it, but keep your eyes closed during the sex, when your done just get up and go. Possibly fart before you exit aswell.

 

[Going to Cali]

Woman and no strings in the same sentence? If it were me, I'd steer well clear, ex's are an ex for a reason!!

 

[Retromatic]

I've been in the situation a long time ago, it completely ruined everything between us and now we don't speak at all - I say go for it!

 

[Thomas. PLease.]

yeh for sure, why not.

 

[knip]

I haven't read the whole thread, but is there any chance either one of you is doing it in the hope that you might get back together? As in why did you break up, and is one of you still carrying feelings for the other.

I've had "buddies" but we both knew from the start that that was all it was, and we didn't have any history, nor was there any chance of either one of us wanting more than just sex. I'm still friends with them, but I have no illusions of them wanting to be with me, or me wanting anything other than the obvious with them.

If you think you can both cope with the fact that one day the other one will find something more permanent, and that its only a bit of fun, then why not. It can be a huge ego boost, and a lot of fun. Just make sure you go into it with your head firmly screwed on.

 

[Quint]

Just do it, you'll fall out one day anyway when either of you meet someone. Stop wasting time.

 

[Mirage]

Don't do it, I've learned from two experiences, both quite recently that it just isnt worth it. Polish your own helmet.

 

[Wiggins]

Your asking on an internet forum????

Post a pic of her on here and we shall make the decision for you.


On a more serious note, DO IT MAN FFS!!!

 

["andy"]

I've been in the situation a long time ago, it completely ruined everything between us and now we don't speak at all

 

[aardvark]

do it - but it WILL end badly, guaranteed.

 

[diverse180]

Please try to refrain from any pastries.

...sorry

 

[benneh]

It's not going to go well.