I'm struggling to see how I'd get to 'too much' energy....!
Hah, I know what you mean, with usage like yours even more so. Our heat pump will hopefully be installed before the year is over, but I'm not holding my breath as things got complicated, and I can't be bothered with the stress so I am not pushing it.
We have a BEV as well but only a tiny 38kWh battery in it so it is easy to fill, the new one (when it is out) will have 55-77kWh, and I'll be using the V2L on that as a total home battery via my new Victron inverter/charge controller/solar setup so that I never have to draw from the grid at peak prices. Both of these things mean no more gas bill, and not worrying too much about having the "spare energy" to cope with cold dark days.